This ones for my fellow submissives...

One year in 2 days. What helps me a lot is to try and soothe the eagerness that comes with every new person. If you go in expecting this to finally be the one your heart gets racing, you overthink stu ...

Mon Sep 14, 2020 12:33 am • 19 Replies • 5126 Views

Just a simple tabletop RPG thread

I've heard of a couple different DnD parties that had a sexual nature to them and it sounds really, really fun! But, don't think my chums would be into it.

If I were to write something like that u ...

Fri Aug 28, 2020 11:11 am • 11 Replies • 5918 Views

Agree or disagree?

I think it's a huge shame that the term BDSM even needs to exist, because it implies a disinterest in what most would call "normal" relationships. I don't think you (OP) were referring to the mainstre ...

Fri Aug 28, 2020 2:16 am • 10 Replies • 3303 Views

Which traits make a Dominant or submissive attractive?

Competitiveness. I think subs are one of the few demographics that get on well with people who want to be the best at everything, lol. Also, being a compatible partner outside of fetish interests.

Thu Aug 27, 2020 9:52 am • 33 Replies • 9681 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Can't speak to staying with a domme because I haven't had one yet, but the appeal for me personally is a reversal of gender roles that I feel are historically extremely unfair to feminine men. I'm fai ...

Tue Aug 18, 2020 12:06 am • 35 Replies • 10384 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

Age 8 or 9. Grandparent's house had some Hardy Boys books and for some reason I liked to skip ahead to the sections where "the boys" TM would get tied up and then rescued. Really liked the lines that ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 7:20 am • 95 Replies • 26679 Views

Who's chasing who?

Bonnie covered pretty much all of the bases. This discussion comes up every so often though, or at least similar versions do, and the answer to your last question is a resounding yes. It's the most di ...

Thu Jul 23, 2020 7:10 am • 13 Replies • 6480 Views

Narcissist ex-domme

@Taramafor

My guy, what are you talking about? OP posted about how to deal with awkward parties around an ex. Don't think he needed a psycho-evaluation.

@subscape eater

Mr. E's response wa ...

Wed Jun 24, 2020 11:18 am • 10 Replies • 5378 Views

Is having a secret dom considered cheating?

Yeah

Tue May 26, 2020 1:13 pm • 16 Replies • 7312 Views

Gaming

My type of question o:

I've played/enjoyed a little bit of everything. Bloodborne is currently my favorite for AAA games but Hyper Light Drifter and Darkest Dungeon I'd rank above it if I were inc ...

Wed May 20, 2020 6:37 am • 41 Replies • 10920 Views