High Pedestal and Expectations?

Can't speak to staying with a domme because I haven't had one yet, but the appeal for me personally is a reversal of gender roles that I feel are historically extremely unfair to feminine men. I'm fai ...

Tue Aug 18, 2020 12:06 am • 35 Replies • 11358 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

Age 8 or 9. Grandparent's house had some Hardy Boys books and for some reason I liked to skip ahead to the sections where "the boys" TM would get tied up and then rescued. Really liked the lines that ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 7:20 am • 95 Replies • 30225 Views

Who's chasing who?

Bonnie covered pretty much all of the bases. This discussion comes up every so often though, or at least similar versions do, and the answer to your last question is a resounding yes. It's the most di ...

Thu Jul 23, 2020 7:10 am • 13 Replies • 7171 Views

Narcissist ex-domme

@Taramafor

My guy, what are you talking about? OP posted about how to deal with awkward parties around an ex. Don't think he needed a psycho-evaluation.

@subscape eater

Mr. E's response wa ...

Wed Jun 24, 2020 11:18 am • 10 Replies • 6083 Views

Is having a secret dom considered cheating?

Yeah

Tue May 26, 2020 1:13 pm • 16 Replies • 8388 Views

Gaming

My type of question o:

I've played/enjoyed a little bit of everything. Bloodborne is currently my favorite for AAA games but Hyper Light Drifter and Darkest Dungeon I'd rank above it if I were inc ...

Wed May 20, 2020 6:37 am • 41 Replies • 12088 Views

Re: insta doms

Every time I hear about this I picture a 15 yr old, pimply faced glasses wearing geek screaming " I Am Your Master" at the computer while he sits with his cock in one hand and a video controller in th ...

Fri May 15, 2020 1:50 pm • 21 Replies • 10437 Views

Conversation

Worrying about how the conversation is going is the #1 conversation killer. Also, text conversations are hot garbage for figuring out if you mesh with a person - get into a voice call via phone or Dis ...

Tue May 12, 2020 7:49 am • 4 Replies • 2658 Views

The Struggles of a male submissive

You're right, I shouldn't laugh at others, but it's just so fuckin funny lmao. Like someone walking up to a hotdog vendor and asking if they still sell hotdogs.

Sat May 02, 2020 9:52 pm • 19 Replies • 9194 Views

The Struggles of a male submissive

Kinda difficult to give advice on this seeing as I'm in the same boat, but I had a lot of dominant dudes on Grindr make this mistake in my DMs -

You're on a kink website. They're already aware that ...

Sat May 02, 2020 9:44 pm • 19 Replies • 9194 Views