Sex vs lust vs love

Sex without emotion is just scratching an itch, and while it may satisfy that itchy feeling for a bit, it will not do much to fill the "voids" that most of us seek to fill. Not saying scratching it ...

Sun Jun 01, 2025 4:43 am • 5 Replies • 174 Views

Legacy Accounts

The problem with acquiring such an account, would be everybody would expect me to get one.

Because, you know, I'm the coolest. Dom on here.


... and none funnier.

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Most definitely the ...

Sun Jun 01, 2025 4:38 am • 16 Replies • 786 Views

Do men really like women?

To me - it's a question of 2 points - motive and maturity

Some men really don't care what they think about the person they are having sex with, they just want somewhere to stick it. To that end, th ...

Fri Apr 25, 2025 3:51 pm • 90 Replies • 5513 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

After spending a few years bouncing around The Cage, and after finally coming to the awareness that I truly am terrible at online dating, I gave up even sending out messages of interest at all. I am ...

Sat May 25, 2024 6:15 pm • 49 Replies • 7205 Views

I need some advice

I was wondering where Super-Dom! Had gone off to! Give em the boot!

https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=65108&postid=83603

Thu Dec 14, 2023 5:54 am • 19 Replies • 3196 Views

Am I wrong for setting an age limit?

Would love to chime in, but alas, "the tribe has spoken" lol, and great advice it is!

Mon Nov 06, 2023 6:54 am • 49 Replies • 8151 Views

Do all Gals/Guy's have ball busting fantasies? Asking for a friend.

Gonna give this a definite "NO!" in baritone and .. just for clarity sake, no need to repeat the no in soprano

Wed Sep 13, 2023 2:16 am • 19 Replies • 3302 Views

Overwhelmed

Ya know, the cage can be a wonderful experience. So many facets, so many people of all walks of life (and kink), so much to offer! In fact, when you first sign up you feel like a baby bunny (no offe ...

Mon Aug 21, 2023 5:47 am • 38 Replies • 6854 Views

Kinky Haiku

Your face in my hands,
submission trusted to me
And yet I am yours

Mon Jul 24, 2023 1:06 am • 14 Replies • 2283 Views

What do you consider to be "Sharing"

Now bear in mind, my answer is in relation to myself, or any dynamic I am in.

Sharing is allowing any other person to have, hold, or borrow what to me are the most precious parts of any dynamic. A ...

Sun Jul 23, 2023 3:04 pm • 12 Replies • 3586 Views