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ADHD, submission, and lifestyle control

Tread carefully with this particular label "ADHD". As a youngster of about 10 years old, immediatly after my parents divorce, a doctor at Portsmouth Naval placed that diagnosis on me. First it was ri ...

Sun Feb 01, 2026 11:20 pm • 2 Replies • 391 Views

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IowaDom

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ADHD, submission, and lifestyle control

Sir or Daddy

To me, the title itself is not nearly as important as when it is used. To me, unless the agreed upon title has been EARNED, it is pointless and meaningless blather...

Tue Jul 08, 2025 2:41 am • 36 Replies • 15775 Views

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IowaDom

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Sir or Daddy

chemical play

Poeple will do as they will, but speaking ONLY for myself, I'd saddle the horse and head for the hills before getting involved with ANY chemical play on privates - too much to and can go wrong, no o ...

Tue Jul 08, 2025 2:36 am • 9 Replies • 3677 Views

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IowaDom

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Fetish

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chemical play

Sex vs lust vs love

Of course there isn't Miki, we each march to the drum we choose, one is certainly no better or worse than another, as in the end, whatever needs we wanted fulfilled hopefully got fulfilled

Mon Jun 02, 2025 5:11 am • 13 Replies • 3003 Views

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IowaDom

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Sex vs lust vs love

Sex without emotion is just scratching an itch, and while it may satisfy that itchy feeling for a bit, it will not do much to fill the "voids" that most of us seek to fill. Not saying scratching it ...

Sun Jun 01, 2025 4:43 am • 13 Replies • 3003 Views

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IowaDom

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Sex vs lust vs love

Legacy Accounts

The problem with acquiring such an account, would be everybody would expect me to get one.

Because, you know, I'm the coolest. Dom on here.

... and none funnier.

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Most definitely the ...

Sun Jun 01, 2025 4:38 am • 30 Replies • 11135 Views

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IowaDom

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Technical Support

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Legacy Accounts

Do men really like women?

To me - it's a question of 2 points - motive and maturity

Some men really don't care what they think about the person they are having sex with, they just want somewhere to stick it. To that end, th ...

Fri Apr 25, 2025 3:51 pm • 117 Replies • 22750 Views

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IowaDom

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Do men really like women?

Low effort messages from dudes

After spending a few years bouncing around The Cage, and after finally coming to the awareness that I truly am terrible at online dating, I gave up even sending out messages of interest at all. I am ...

Sat May 25, 2024 6:15 pm • 49 Replies • 11218 Views

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IowaDom

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Low effort messages from dudes

I need some advice

I was wondering where Super-Dom! Had gone off to! Give em the boot!

https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=65108&postid=83603

Thu Dec 14, 2023 5:54 am • 19 Replies • 4749 Views

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IowaDom

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I need some advice

Am I wrong for setting an age limit?

Would love to chime in, but alas, "the tribe has spoken" lol, and great advice it is!

Mon Nov 06, 2023 6:54 am • 49 Replies • 11793 Views

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IowaDom

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Am I wrong for setting an age limit?