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Posts by IowaDom(dom male)

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111

Should I ask for rules?

Sound thought! My only add would be that rules need to be effective, useful, and agreed upon. Talk to your dom, and you guys work out some rules together ..and don't forget punishment discussions as w ...

Thu Jan 07, 2021 8:11 pm • 33 Replies • 13317 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Maledom

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Should I ask for rules?

112

Subs Pursuing Doms

"I am curious, however, of all the Doms who said they were fine with a sub approaching... How many actually do/did approach?
How many of those led to meeting and then a relationship?"

Well, here i ...

Tue Jan 05, 2021 6:05 pm • 60 Replies • 32174 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Maledom

Topic

Subs Pursuing Doms

113

What would you think?

In a tent? Seriously? Did he give you instructions besides? Like .. park way down the road? Bring a bag of lye? Got any pack shovels? I am definitely not submissive, on any level, but that setup i ...

Mon Jan 04, 2021 9:23 pm • 54 Replies • 12395 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

What would you think?

114

Auction

That is not the idea behind it Bunnie. The idea was going online Auctioning herself off for money for two years so that she is not alone.... If that makes any sense? She is not really slave material. ...

Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:33 pm • 35 Replies • 17498 Views

Author

IowaDom

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Auction

115

Subs Pursuing Doms

Sadly,
Many of the contacts that have been initiated by "subs" (and I put that in quotes to indicate that I do not consider them to actually be subs), toward myself, tend, a the end of all things, t ...

Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:29 pm • 60 Replies • 32174 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Maledom

Topic

Subs Pursuing Doms

116

Help please

Checking into somebodys backround that you may be considering as a mate or partner is not only acceptable imho, but you would have had to been nuts not to. Too many people are out there stalking behi ...

Thu Dec 31, 2020 9:14 pm • 32 Replies • 11679 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Help please

117

Worst pick up line....THAT WORKED

My example is not one of a successful pickup line, but pretty damn funny! A friend of mine in middle school was constantly saying stupid shit to girls, sometimes it worked, sometimes not. But as time ...

Sun Nov 29, 2020 4:09 am • 19 Replies • 8612 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Worst pick up line....THAT WORKED

118

Myers Briggs and BDSM roles

ENFJ here ... and while I took the test with the expectation of a horoscope read .. lol. I did find it as accurate a description of myself as I have ever seen, it really was kind of amazing to resear ...

Mon Nov 16, 2020 8:14 am • 23 Replies • 13060 Views

Author

IowaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Myers Briggs and BDSM roles

119

Policing inappropriate messages

We would never allow any public "outing" of members on THE CAGE. This violates our rules. We have a very effective report system that we encourage all members to use if required.

Censorship and BD ...

Wed Nov 11, 2020 4:51 am • 22 Replies • 8739 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Policing inappropriate messages

120

Where do you guys get your stuff?

I have bought from Amazon, several other online retailers. Finally, while watching a video on youtube, the host recommended 6whips and canemaster. I originally bought several paddles and accessorie ...

Tue Nov 10, 2020 2:28 am • 16 Replies • 7659 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Where do you guys get your stuff?