Myers Briggs and BDSM roles

ENFJ here ... and while I took the test with the expectation of a horoscope read .. lol. I did find it as accurate a description of myself as I have ever seen, it really was kind of amazing to resear ...

Mon Nov 16, 2020 8:14 am • 23 Replies • 9936 Views

Policing inappropriate messages

We would never allow any public "outing" of members on THE CAGE. This violates our rules. We have a very effective report system that we encourage all members to use if required.

Censorship and BD ...

Wed Nov 11, 2020 4:51 am • 22 Replies • 5834 Views

Where do you guys get your stuff?

I have bought from Amazon, several other online retailers. Finally, while watching a video on youtube, the host recommended 6whips and canemaster. I originally bought several paddles and accessorie ...

Tue Nov 10, 2020 2:28 am • 16 Replies • 5613 Views

Age-Gaps - Attracting Interest in Older Men - Not Reciprocated

I would have to agree, if you have something specific, be it age gap, or no DDLG or no whatever, and you are actively seeking a Dom or partner, I would suggest adding that, being specific as previous ...

Fri Nov 06, 2020 7:26 pm • 25 Replies • 8374 Views

Disclosing your kinky/BDSM side to your friends & family

Personally, I see my private life as private. In my job, I interact with so many people on a daily basis, that it is hard to even be out for dinner without somebody wanting to come up and say hi or ...

Fri Nov 06, 2020 4:32 am • 6 Replies • 2262 Views

Questions for all Ds

I am fairly open as to what I look for. But there are a few mine -

current relationship status - is she involved?
type of relationship she may be looking for - poly, monogamous etc, then online ...

Wed Nov 04, 2020 8:26 pm • 5 Replies • 2079 Views

Intro Question

Considering the fact that your profile clearly States that you are in a monogamous relationship, and that you are not looking for anything other than information and perhaps friendship, I would sugges ...

Wed Nov 04, 2020 7:17 pm • 15 Replies • 4971 Views

Help! Preparing for punishment....

So what happened? C'mon you can't read the first four chapters and skip the ending!

Tue Nov 03, 2020 5:20 pm • 27 Replies • 11210 Views

Ever worried you’ll end up alone?

While recently giving serious thought to a message I wanted to reply to recently, as I carefully worded my message, my thought train took me to this particular statement, so it is interesting that thi ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 5:19 pm • 79 Replies • 20511 Views

Thoughts on BDSM Bars

Better have another office in there for the resident Bail Bondsman you'll be wanting to keep him on retainer, and get group discounts!

Fri Oct 30, 2020 5:05 pm • 25 Replies • 6730 Views