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Relationship dilemma (please help idk what to do)

Completely agree with both posts - but wanted to add .... since you are Topping sometimes, why not use your top time for a roleplay that would be exactly what you want? Maybe you are the innocent vir ...

Fri Jan 22, 2021 11:06 pm • 5 Replies • 2637 Views

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IowaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Relationship dilemma (please help idk what to do)

112

Should I ask for rules?

Sound thought! My only add would be that rules need to be effective, useful, and agreed upon. Talk to your dom, and you guys work out some rules together ..and don't forget punishment discussions as w ...

Thu Jan 07, 2021 8:11 pm • 33 Replies • 14625 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Maledom

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Should I ask for rules?

113

Subs Pursuing Doms

"I am curious, however, of all the Doms who said they were fine with a sub approaching... How many actually do/did approach?
How many of those led to meeting and then a relationship?"

Well, here i ...

Tue Jan 05, 2021 6:05 pm • 60 Replies • 35002 Views

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IowaDom

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Maledom

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Subs Pursuing Doms

114

What would you think?

In a tent? Seriously? Did he give you instructions besides? Like .. park way down the road? Bring a bag of lye? Got any pack shovels? I am definitely not submissive, on any level, but that setup i ...

Mon Jan 04, 2021 9:23 pm • 54 Replies • 13734 Views

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IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What would you think?

115

Auction

That is not the idea behind it Bunnie. The idea was going online Auctioning herself off for money for two years so that she is not alone.... If that makes any sense? She is not really slave material. ...

Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:33 pm • 35 Replies • 18891 Views

Author

IowaDom

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Auction

116

Subs Pursuing Doms

Sadly,
Many of the contacts that have been initiated by "subs" (and I put that in quotes to indicate that I do not consider them to actually be subs), toward myself, tend, a the end of all things, t ...

Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:29 pm • 60 Replies • 35002 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Maledom

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Subs Pursuing Doms

117

Help please

Checking into somebodys backround that you may be considering as a mate or partner is not only acceptable imho, but you would have had to been nuts not to. Too many people are out there stalking behi ...

Thu Dec 31, 2020 9:14 pm • 32 Replies • 13412 Views

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IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Help please

118

Worst pick up line....THAT WORKED

My example is not one of a successful pickup line, but pretty damn funny! A friend of mine in middle school was constantly saying stupid shit to girls, sometimes it worked, sometimes not. But as time ...

Sun Nov 29, 2020 4:09 am • 19 Replies • 9553 Views

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IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Worst pick up line....THAT WORKED

119

Myers Briggs and BDSM roles

ENFJ here ... and while I took the test with the expectation of a horoscope read .. lol. I did find it as accurate a description of myself as I have ever seen, it really was kind of amazing to resear ...

Mon Nov 16, 2020 8:14 am • 23 Replies • 14253 Views

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IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Myers Briggs and BDSM roles

120

Policing inappropriate messages

We would never allow any public "outing" of members on THE CAGE. This violates our rules. We have a very effective report system that we encourage all members to use if required.

Censorship and BD ...

Wed Nov 11, 2020 4:51 am • 22 Replies • 9812 Views

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IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Policing inappropriate messages