Abuse, where is the line?

Good Grief! Did you have to yell, fella?

C'mon Miki .. you ever heard "and then God whispered" ... lol

Disclaimer: this has been a joke, had it been an actual reply to the other poster, it ...

Thu Oct 29, 2020 8:47 pm • 27 Replies • 6793 Views

Profile

click your user name upper right corner, click "preferences" - scroll to avatar - click on picture

Thu Oct 29, 2020 8:42 pm • 1 Replies • 1889 Views

Online relationships

Have a look at this recent thread .. may be of assistance...

https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=3223

Thu Oct 29, 2020 5:26 pm • 1 Replies • 2228 Views

Am I cut out for this?

There’s an old parable about a frog and a scorpion that provides a valuable lesson. As the story goes, the scorpion wanted to get across a lake. Because scorpions can’t swim, it asked a frog to transp ...

Tue Oct 27, 2020 2:35 am • 20 Replies • 7107 Views

Levels of submission / dominace

I read a lot of profiles / personal ads / blogs where people who are not in a dynamic speak to the level of Dominance or submission they are seeking in a potential mate. Now I do understand that a per ...

Mon Oct 26, 2020 7:01 pm • 0 Replies • 1185 Views

I am a virgin, but I still know that I'm submissive..

There is a thread not too far back on helping a newbie find a Dom ... and I totally agree with the above posts, it IS something you will remember later in life, make it worth remembering

Fri Oct 23, 2020 5:12 pm • 5 Replies • 2734 Views

Intro Question

Here is what I tend to use on The Cage. Now, I am not a sub, but I cannot see why some or all of this might not work for you!

1. You get a message
A. Deal killers - these messages should r ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 4:25 pm • 15 Replies • 4971 Views

Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

Once trust is lost, you are just trying to bail the water out of the boat. Because no trust means no trust with your well being, emotional state, or as the caretaker of the heart. Without that, the ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 8:31 am • 20 Replies • 4893 Views

Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

@IowaDom and Sunshinegirl
Omgoodness, your responses are on point and so insightful. I realize now I'm not necessarilly experiencing so much of a moral dilemma as I am having an emotional response f ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 7:11 am • 20 Replies • 4893 Views

Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

Nothing good ever came from getting involved in somebody else's marriage, friend, foe, or stranger, does not matter. Besides, nothing would change other than the severity of the stress for your frien ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 5:43 am • 20 Replies • 4893 Views