Dealing with my Heartbreak at 60

I am going to reply here, but I want to warn you upfront that you may be hearing some things you do not wish to hear, so please, ignore this reply if you are not ready.

First off, at the first play ...

Sun Feb 16, 2020 9:21 pm • 8 Replies • 3096 Views

Just a question

Sounds like what they get is a trip to the ER. To each their own, but that is so far over the line, I simply cannot imagine..... not going to google it, research it, or learn about it ... but I migh ...

Sat Feb 15, 2020 6:35 pm • 14 Replies • 5649 Views

Home-made toys? Yay/Nay? Suggestions?

well, wanted stability and safety. So for the St Andrews, used 2x6 lumber, double stacked, then both glued and bolted together with 1/2" heavy duty recessed lag bolts. Your basic 2x6 can normally ho ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 7:11 am • 19 Replies • 8861 Views

Home-made toys? Yay/Nay? Suggestions?

Absolutely! I made a whipping bench, a St Andrews Cross, and currently working on what is best described as a multi positional bench, allowing lay down on back or stomach, stocks, kneeling, and a w ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 4:40 am • 19 Replies • 8861 Views

when your Dom wants to explore with someone new

I think I begin to see the light a bit here.... you developed in the dynamic far beyond what he had, very naturally I might add. It takes somebody that possesses skills beyond my own to be in a vanil ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 3:59 am • 22 Replies • 10618 Views

Conversation Starter: Define Domination

Domination? I would offer, for myself,...

"The earned honor of holding and protecting the angelic gift of your sub's submission. To be ever diligent in your duty to protect, develop, and keep your ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 3:35 am • 8 Replies • 4311 Views

Lose

The same as with any dynamic, vanilla or otherwise. It is just going to take time my friend. But as you likely already know, you need to heal this wound in your soul before looking to replace your s ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 3:27 am • 5 Replies • 2748 Views

when your Dom wants to explore with someone new

A question ... was being poly discussed? I for one, never mind the potential health concerns, have never found myself able to be poly, not even in my youth, I dated 1 and only 1 person at a time. Su ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 3:16 am • 22 Replies • 10618 Views

What’s the site for

It has the potential to be whatever you wish it to be. You can lurk and learn, make acquaintances, explore friendships, even find a dynamic if that is your choice. But a word to the wise .... with eac ...

Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:35 am • 8 Replies • 3381 Views

Reasonable Limits and Ruined Orgasms

Why RUIN the orgasm, you take her to the brink of orgasm, before it actually starts, then pause and restart, a few rounds of this will usually produce a mind altering, fireworks imagining orgasm when ...

Sat Feb 08, 2020 7:27 am • 4 Replies • 1920 Views