Adult Bookstores/Movie theatres/Arcade

(*...sigh....)

We have one adult themed book/video store here in my town but I've never been in there, honestly. Always felt kind of weird, especially since I'd be interested in BDSM porn and I di ...

Thu May 30, 2024 5:16 pm • 15 Replies • 1436 Views

Friends With Benefits

For me, FWB covers infinite dynamics between a one and done hook up and committed relationship.

i want the latter, but in the absence of opportunity, a FWB can be an ongoing relationship that does ...

Sat May 25, 2024 7:14 pm • 19 Replies • 1772 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

Haha, a topic near and dear to my heart. Low effort, one line profiles or responses, are the bane of my online existence. It's a constant emotional wrestling match with me.

i appreciate the rep ...

Fri May 24, 2024 7:56 pm • 44 Replies • 4628 Views

Re: Emotions & Catching Feelings

What importance do you think emotions play in BDSM? Controversial opinions welcome but don't ridicule or be nasty if you disgree with someone or I'll hunt you down. 🐻🫎

Ive seen so many Doms say th ...

Thu May 23, 2024 10:16 pm • 40 Replies • 4327 Views

Seeking advice on encouraging my partner to explore a more dominant role.

Hearty ditto to those who advice against manipulation and advocate for honest, open communication.

i do not believe the manipulative approach will actually evoke what either of you want or need bec ...

Thu May 23, 2024 9:09 pm • 4 Replies • 812 Views

Adult Bookstores/Movie theatres/Arcade

Yes, they do exist. squirt.org is an ap originally designed for locating such places. It's a mostly gay ap, but the places listed are not exclusively gay. In Oregon, having sex in an arcade is legal. ...

Thu May 23, 2024 8:48 pm • 15 Replies • 1436 Views

Something you Enjoy, and something you Don't.

Being subtly Dommed

Being forcefully dommed

Fri May 17, 2024 6:01 pm • 8 Replies • 514 Views

Pro this Pro that

A very expensive theatrical production...

This is what this goes on in this lifestyle really, at its heart, it's all just theatre?

i think it depends on the participants. Being different isn't ...

Mon May 06, 2024 12:22 am • 12 Replies • 1244 Views

Domlyness

I would think each dom like each sub would have their unique "Attitude". Since we are all different. I understand the lifestyle thing but even in the lifestyle we all are unique with different wants a ...

Sun May 05, 2024 6:20 pm • 13 Replies • 1436 Views

Domlyness

Disclaimer: while i believe there are general attributes to point us, i don't presume to make a universal definition or standard... these are my personal notions of "Dom."

Dom descriptors that tri ...

Sat May 04, 2024 7:05 pm • 13 Replies • 1436 Views