How to Have Hard BDSM Conversations

@ GloriaBrame, thank you for sharing your experience and expertise with us.

i love your focus and emphasis on communication. i think that we largely fail when it comes to establishing communicati ...

Mon May 08, 2023 8:56 pm • 9 Replies • 1921 Views

How best organize my first GB by myself?

Not sure the OP is around or has seen any of these responses, but i think it a cool topic worthy of discussion.

i have experience as a receiver (gay total bottom here).

Since you (the OP) are " ...

Thu May 04, 2023 6:24 pm • 10 Replies • 3123 Views

How to battle Insecurities during sex?

Wow, great discussion! i think there's some very thoughtful comments and insights.

To me, sex is about connection in one of the most intimate ways we can. Since the (my) goal is deep, intimate conn ...

Wed May 03, 2023 7:13 pm • 17 Replies • 2643 Views

Advice on being turned down by a Dominant.

Hi Tall Slender! where you been!?!? wb and great to see you! : )

Hi darlingdiana!
And thank you for the sweet "wb," it feels good to be welcome. Been spending time in the gay community, working ( ...

Tue Apr 25, 2023 9:51 pm • 33 Replies • 5808 Views

Re: Advice on being turned down by a Dominant.

I have been talking to a Dominant for the last eight months. This talking being calling every single night and talking for hours. He's an amazing guy, super sweet, so responsible, and a billion of ...

Tue Apr 25, 2023 9:28 pm • 33 Replies • 5808 Views

What is "Sane?"

"sane (adj.)
"of sound mind, mentally sound," 1721, a back-formation from insane or sanity or else from Latin sanus "sound, healthy," in its figurative or transferred use, "of sound mind, rational, s ...

Sun Apr 02, 2023 8:54 pm • 17 Replies • 2681 Views

Re: BIRDS & THE BEES

Posit :
~ Are we humans, as twice removed - sentient beings ( homo-sapien & homo-sapien-sapien) yet, who still have & exercise a basic survival nature- call it instinct,... not a more dev ...

Wed Mar 29, 2023 8:35 pm • 63 Replies • 11416 Views

Favorite Predicament

One that feeds/nurtures a mutual need/desire between me and my Mate. i have lots of 'kinks,' that can be used as connecting and bonding places, but it's the mutuality that connects me to another that ...

Sun Mar 26, 2023 3:58 pm • 7 Replies • 1101 Views

What is it that you (subs) desire?

if You can overlook the fact that i'm sub male, i think this will be true for a lot of sub females as well, i.e., that it is generally true.

i look for openness and the willingness to be vulnerable ...

Sun Mar 26, 2023 3:49 pm • 40 Replies • 9001 Views

Re: Any no sexual contact before marriage Christians?

Just curious if there's any other Christians on the site, particularly those who believe in no sexual contact before marriage. I do feel a lot of people forget that D/s is *not* just about sex. You ca ...

Thu Mar 23, 2023 6:18 pm • 53 Replies • 7805 Views