Receiving more pampering in play (where to start?)

These aren't burning must-do desires, nor are they things that I think anyone in particular owes me. And, frankly, I made myself cringe a little when I first started to acknowledge them. But part ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 8:40 pm • 4 Replies • 1832 Views

Need advice on whether wife’s new Dom is shady.

Have you met the "dom" and spoken at any length with him? If not, your only perspective of him is through your wife.

Your wife lied to and cheated on you, was he complicit? That, to me, is not ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 7:13 pm • 37 Replies • 9733 Views

Need advice on whether wife’s new Dom is shady.

Up front, i do not think we have enough information to give conclusive answers or make judgement calls.

That said, a few thoughts i have from the finite info they derive from:

If you consider th ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 6:25 pm • 37 Replies • 9733 Views

Receiving more pampering in play (where to start?)

After a third read of your post, it/your desires/needs seem more complex to me than they did with my initial read.

my initial response was to cringe. i hasten to add, i know that's on me, not yo ...

Mon Feb 20, 2023 5:13 pm • 4 Replies • 1832 Views

Is there such a thing as a "Top" Woman?

Are women, ya know, like...people? With all the complexities therein?

Indeed they are, sort of the point of my post. Apologies if i seemed to imply otherwise, it was not my intent.

While i wan ...

Sun Feb 19, 2023 9:30 pm • 6 Replies • 1757 Views

Crossing a line?

Pre qualifier: acknowledged that this is just my view.

i think your conflict is a conditioned response.

i think all religious (or even non religious) belief, is just that. "Belief." I.e., it ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 10:21 pm • 9 Replies • 2991 Views

Is there such a thing as a "Top" Woman?

Nothing in life seems strictly black or white to me, life is fluid? Though i have found some things in my life to have remained pretty constant, static even, such as being gay and total bottom. i wa ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 7:24 pm • 6 Replies • 1757 Views

Overt vs Subtle

Tallslenderguy,

I do not mean to hijack your thoughts on @CC post. Your thoughts help me to define mine better.

I may have misunderstood the original question, are you discussing when someone ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 10:03 pm • 8 Replies • 2154 Views

Overt vs Subtle

I never considered if “Subtle Doms” are rare. I too desire this kind of Dom but never really thought to call Him “subtle.” There’s a quote I have posted on my profile that says,

“If a woman is not ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 8:28 pm • 8 Replies • 2154 Views

Overt vs Subtle

I completely relate to this. If someone tries to come in being all demanding and "in charge", I will become combative and be very much "oh hell no". Probably why some have then said they wanted to sub ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 8:02 pm • 8 Replies • 2154 Views