Turn offs in new conversations

I fail to see how saying, "hey, how are you" is a turn off. What's wrong with talking to another person like they are a person and asking them how they are? I get that it's not exactly Shakesp ...

Sun Jan 15, 2023 6:27 am • 113 Replies • 18716 Views

Approach to finding relationship

Good post. While I may not be vocal about it I enjoy your writing and character.

Your opening paragraphs express that in general people leave love to chance and lack a concrete definition of it. I ...

Tue Jan 10, 2023 9:33 pm • 10 Replies • 2179 Views

Approach to finding relationship

i recently responded to another thread, and it got me thinking on this topic, so thought i'd submit for discussion the topic of how we approach finding a relationship.

To me it seems we often leave ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 9:00 pm • 10 Replies • 2179 Views

Spending time with yourself

Banféinníi, think this is a great discussion topic, thank you for posting it.

i was in a (marriage) relationship with a woman for 31 years. Yet in some very essential ways, i was alone the entire ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 7:22 pm • 6 Replies • 1324 Views

Monogamy

A bit more science:

"...monogamy is usually more apparent, or social, than real, and monogamous animals commonly use two methods to hedge their bets on mate choice. First, they may actually engage ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 6:47 pm • 63 Replies • 11546 Views

Monogamy

Lots of fun speculation in this discussion. Did a brief search to see if there's some study evidence on the evolution of monogamy. Not sure there is an answer to the question, but it's interesting to ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 6:07 pm • 63 Replies • 11546 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

It’s impossible for me to not believe in the fundamental goodness of people… even those who think their only way to get ahead in life is to take advantage of others. All I can think is how horrible ...

Thu Jan 05, 2023 2:50 am • 23 Replies • 5190 Views

First Times

Ha, What a fun question! my answer has two parts because i 'lost' my virginity twice (stay tuned).

i came from a religious culture, so both me and my (former) wife were virgins.

my very first ...

Thu Jan 05, 2023 2:46 am • 11 Replies • 2270 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

It’s impossible for me to not believe in the fundamental goodness of people… even those who think their only way to get ahead in life is to take advantage of others. All I can think is how horrible ...

Wed Jan 04, 2023 11:34 pm • 23 Replies • 5190 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

"Succubus" sounds like a kink requiring enormous oral capacity.

Wed Jan 04, 2023 11:20 pm • 23 Replies • 5190 Views