Overt vs Subtle

i think (and encounter) this a lot, so wanted to throw it out there to the community for discussion.

i have a deeply submissive side to my nature? (seems that way), but am often hesitant to put tha ...

Tue Feb 07, 2023 7:23 pm • 8 Replies • 2157 Views

Spitting

When i originally saw the title to this thread, i didn't realize that "spitting" was going to be about spitting out semen.

I thought it was gonna be about spit and spitting. i've encountered som ...

Mon Feb 06, 2023 6:59 pm • 11 Replies • 4507 Views

Spitting

i grew up knowing i am gay, a total bottom and a cocksucker. i can trace my crushes and attraction to guys to 7 years old. Alas, i grew up in a religious culture and consequently tried to suppress my ...

Mon Feb 06, 2023 6:30 pm • 11 Replies • 4507 Views

Water sports yes or no?

It is A LOT of fun- for me- it is deeply bonding

me too... but only if the chemistry is there.

For me, all 'kinks' need to be mutual to work. We're all pretty complex, and it's not always easy, ...

Sun Feb 05, 2023 6:39 pm • 55 Replies • 17937 Views

How does one find a female dom?

Big ditto to MissBonnie and Solace.

And, i'll throw some of my own thoughts into the discussion.

First off, i think thexephoes made a great start at answering his question by posing it in the f ...

Thu Jan 26, 2023 1:14 am • 24 Replies • 10547 Views

Re: Dick pics

I really don't know how to deal with guys sending me unsolicited dick pics.

What is the best way to handle this ? ( excuse the pun )

Please forward them to me, i'm a gay total bottom and don't ...

Thu Jan 19, 2023 4:56 am • 76 Replies • 17250 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

I fail to see how saying, "hey, how are you" is a turn off. What's wrong with talking to another person like they are a person and asking them how they are? I get that it's not exactly Shakesp ...

Sun Jan 15, 2023 6:27 am • 113 Replies • 28538 Views

Approach to finding relationship

Good post. While I may not be vocal about it I enjoy your writing and character.

Your opening paragraphs express that in general people leave love to chance and lack a concrete definition of it. I ...

Tue Jan 10, 2023 9:33 pm • 10 Replies • 3396 Views

Approach to finding relationship

i recently responded to another thread, and it got me thinking on this topic, so thought i'd submit for discussion the topic of how we approach finding a relationship.

To me it seems we often leave ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 9:00 pm • 10 Replies • 3396 Views

Spending time with yourself

Banféinníi, think this is a great discussion topic, thank you for posting it.

i was in a (marriage) relationship with a woman for 31 years. Yet in some very essential ways, i was alone the entire ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 7:22 pm • 6 Replies • 1825 Views