Sub drop for recovering addict

i find this to be a wonderfully considerate question.

Speculating 'out loud' here:

Since lots of addictions are a form of self medication, it could be that the need this person was trying to 'me ...

Wed Dec 07, 2022 10:13 pm • 17 Replies • 4358 Views

Water sports yes or no?

I have to say, when I posed this question, my own preconceptions had me thinking one way.

However hearing the positive experiences people have had, it really has given me given me a different prosp ...

Sun Dec 04, 2022 12:49 am • 55 Replies • 17942 Views

Water sports yes or no?

Limits change as we grow, as we ask ourselves why is it a limit? Is it revulsion? Or fear? Or societal judgment? Or our own fear that we might actually be aroused by it but we've always been told it ...

Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:09 pm • 55 Replies • 17942 Views

minimalist bondage

One i have read about is a pink ribbon tied in a bow around the base of a penis instead of a chastity cage. Same purpose, the penis cannot be touched with the bow on.

Sun Nov 27, 2022 12:58 am • 21 Replies • 8422 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Finally, my profile is deliberately thin because I'm not looking to start anything beyond casual conversation-- so it should be quite easy to read as opposed to other, more "substantial" ones t ...

Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:45 pm • 113 Replies • 28543 Views

Thanksgiving Predictive Text

"This Thanksgiving i'm going to stuff it with some and i'm thankful for that. "

Mon Nov 21, 2022 10:54 pm • 32 Replies • 3843 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Contacts that show no desire or clue about how to engage another human being.
i write a detailed profile, so any serious person who is capable of conversation, is equipped to engage me with lots of i ...

Mon Nov 21, 2022 4:58 pm • 113 Replies • 28543 Views

Drawing the line for Taboos

"Drawing the line" and "recommend[ing] help" are two different things.

There are socially drawn lines and individually drawn lines, many, if not most? kinks land on the outside of the socially dra ...

Fri Nov 18, 2022 4:59 pm • 20 Replies • 7079 Views

Adoration, etc.?

i read, and responded to, a profile (on a gay site). The guy mentioned he is "dominant" and among his list of likes and wishes said: "I want to be pleased and adored." Fair enough, i appreciate openn ...

Fri Nov 18, 2022 1:55 am • 4 Replies • 1304 Views

Edging/holding back an orgasm

I think if a Dom hurts his or her submissive for cumming without permission they run the risk of the submissive associating being hurt with cumming (even unconsciously). Then you wind up with a sub th ...

Tue Nov 15, 2022 8:08 pm • 18 Replies • 5241 Views