Kink: Free to be what you choose or embracing the ugly truth

i think we are free to choose, but not everyone is going to embrace who and how we are, some will think us "ugly," others will think us hot or beautiful, others will be uninterestedly neutral. i thin ...

Sun Apr 24, 2022 4:02 pm • 2 Replies • 1214 Views

What it's like for Dommes

i think this is a great topic of discussion... and complex.

my perspective is as a gay guy. i identify as "total bottom with some sub." i came aware of my sub side while i was married to a woman ...

Sat Apr 23, 2022 4:01 pm • 54 Replies • 17053 Views

Neediness in Submissives

Like the OP, the term "neediness," does not evoke a warm, fuzzy feeling in me. i've never thought or put in a profile or ad: "needy person," as one of my l wants/needs. To me, there's a difference ...

Mon Apr 18, 2022 6:34 pm • 17 Replies • 9108 Views

Need confidence

i think a big part of confidence comes from self acceptance. i believe in order to have self acceptance one has to (truly and thoroughly) know their self, which i think involves a lifelong practice of ...

Sun Apr 17, 2022 9:00 pm • 7 Replies • 2675 Views

A Poly/Mono Relationship

I've got a story I saw recently that might help. A wife gets up for work before her husband each day and has a coffee while she gets ready. She's in a rush and leaves the coffee out. It really winds t ...

Sun Apr 17, 2022 6:15 pm • 34 Replies • 10733 Views

A Poly/Mono Relationship

i'm sorry for your obvious hurt.

Relationship has so many angles and complexities.

To me, the challenge you are facing was there from the beginning. I.e., you got into a relationship with some ...

Fri Apr 15, 2022 5:25 pm • 34 Replies • 10733 Views

Gone… with the wind

A Shot in the Dark

Thu Apr 14, 2022 4:52 pm • 54 Replies • 7981 Views

So... anal.

I would venture to guess that would be where communication will come in between in you and your Dom/Master. If that is something that he enjoys and if your level of submission to him runs deep then I ...

Fri Apr 01, 2022 7:41 pm • 47 Replies • 24264 Views

Re: So... anal.

Do Doms/Daddy’s want someone who has some anal training or prefer to be the first?

This is something that I question quite a lot and don’t have many Princess friends to ask.

i think this is one ...

Fri Apr 01, 2022 7:25 pm • 47 Replies • 24264 Views

Re: Do Women find Sissys attractive?

I'm curious about the answer.

I've never identified as a typical make and have always been comfortable with my female side.

I'm not camp. I'm not even gay or gay acting. I'm just a submissive ...

Tue Mar 29, 2022 4:17 pm • 20 Replies • 11660 Views