Re: BDSM and Christianity

I just want to know what goes through one's mind when one reads that someone is a Christian and is also into BDSM. I ask because I explicitly state in my profile that I love the Lord and that I would ...

Mon Feb 21, 2022 7:10 pm • 22 Replies • 10881 Views

INSTA._________ WTF???

Meant to say “i am also a responsible adult” lol

Sun Feb 20, 2022 8:17 pm • 16 Replies • 5846 Views

Re: INSTA._________ WTF???

Would you kindly elaborate on why you feel the term "insta" is only applied to Dominants and not submissives? In your (well put) example of what the "insta-Dom/me" demands; could the submissive not be ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 5:02 pm • 16 Replies • 5846 Views

INSTA._________ WTF???

As I read it, “Insta” does not necessarily imply new, rather more an entitled disposition that translates into a self absorbed and inconsiderate approach. I’ve encountered plenty of noobs who were not ...

Sat Feb 19, 2022 11:06 pm • 16 Replies • 5846 Views

Consensual Psychological "Abuse"

i think this is a fascinating topic, thanks for bringing up.

i've thought about this for a long time introspectively as i have degradation/humilation kinks. i describe my kink as "affectionate d ...

Thu Feb 17, 2022 5:03 pm • 9 Replies • 4973 Views

Women and men over 65

Age is not synonymous with health.

i'm a critical care nurse in a hospital setting and also have education and certification through Cornell University on preventing and reversing disease process ...

Wed Feb 16, 2022 10:31 pm • 20 Replies • 7816 Views

Sounding

I have always felt that an activity is neutral, that headspace and intent give it a top/bottom vibe etc. So a sub could be ordered to do all manner of things that could be seen as being the sort of th ...

Wed Feb 16, 2022 9:47 pm • 9 Replies • 4181 Views

Sounding

Not sure what you are asking for here? i read your profile and it appears you look for a woman to be with sexually?

This is just my perspective, from a gay total bottom with some sub, so i am not s ...

Wed Feb 16, 2022 8:44 pm • 9 Replies • 4181 Views

Finding a mate

I hope I read this post correctly, in that you're wondering why marriages and "sex as taboo" are still the foundations of relationships even though they don't function well per your research/thoughts. ...

Sun Feb 13, 2022 7:51 pm • 4 Replies • 2819 Views

Classic films

Re non digital special effects that have stood the test of time?

One of the best i can recall is the parting of the Red Sea in Ten Commandments. Fast forward, Raiders of the Lost Ark had some g ...

Sat Feb 12, 2022 6:44 pm • 5 Replies • 2079 Views