ready for real time?

I'm long past ready to get out, but I don't feel nearly safe enough to go many places.
On the positive side, I do have a newfound, supreme confidence in the ignorance of a cross-section of humanity. ...

Thu Dec 16, 2021 1:45 am • 15 Replies • 6644 Views

Feature suggestion....

i've not had great experiences with those who send a "wink." i guess if it's a response emoji it's different than just something someone can send you. i've found a lot of scammers use the push butto ...

Thu Dec 16, 2021 12:59 am • 24 Replies • 11194 Views

ready for real time?

"Scamdemic?!?"

As a critical care nurse with >1600 hours of direct care for Covid positive patients, this sort of self imposed ignorance galls me. The thousands of professionals who care for th ...

Wed Dec 15, 2021 11:10 pm • 15 Replies • 6644 Views

Re: Mental health & BDSM

Do you think kink partners should reveal any mental health diagnoses, and whether or not they are in treatment for them, to eachother? I'm mostly talking about a long term situation, as I'm not sure t ...

Wed Dec 15, 2021 12:27 am • 34 Replies • 11486 Views

Mental health & BDSM

I call it ethical illness.

Informed Consent: This is a great example of what informed consent really means.

If you appreciate the risk factors of how we engage in this realm. And if you wish ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 6:08 pm • 34 Replies • 11486 Views

Mental health & BDSM

It's not a simple question me thinks.

i'm a critical care nurse and when i get new patients, i see their medical history and it doesn't always have to do with the acute issue they're dealing with ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 4:31 am • 34 Replies • 11486 Views

Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

To directly answer the thread's point, I don't know how people have the energy for sex more than twice a day. I think I'd prefer to just have a progressive buildup or teasing throughout the day le ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 12:30 am • 18 Replies • 6033 Views

Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

i've noticed occasional comments in profiles and forums on meeting sites like: "it's not all about sex" or something similar. It sort of comes of as chiding or correction, as though sex and our sexual ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 11:31 pm • 18 Replies • 6033 Views

Determining informed consent

Great topic/conversation.

A few random thoughts.

For me one of the biggest parts of consent requires already knowing and having experience with the person i am giving consent to. For instance, i ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 9:08 pm • 29 Replies • 10621 Views

Re: Collars

I have seen several profiles now with people wearing collars yet saying they are single and looking. To me a collar means that person is owned. I understand you can be collared and poly and looking fo ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 12:05 am • 72 Replies • 23365 Views