Verbal Humiliation

For me, verbal humiliation is one of the deep bonds i can have with an intimate Top/Dom/Husband. For a long time, the paradox of it was a mystery for me, but i think i have come to understand it.
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Sun Dec 05, 2021 7:00 pm • 31 Replies • 12087 Views

What is BDSM/kink to you?

To me "kink" is just a blanket term for individual, usually sexual/sexualized need/desire that doesn't fit the cultural 'norm.' I found this at etymology online:
kink (n.)
1670s, "knot-like contr ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:46 pm • 11 Replies • 3858 Views

Dark Fantasies...

Great thread. Funny, how we are all on a kink site called "The Cage," talking about our fears of being and expressing who we are.

my "dark fantasies" get divided into two basic categories: "gross" ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:12 pm • 27 Replies • 10204 Views

Men, what you need to know.

I absolutely agree with you there. Men in our society are taught that showing emotion is weak - other than anger. Boys get their feelings hurt and are told “be a man!” Punch someone because they’r ...

Mon Nov 22, 2021 9:15 pm • 93 Replies • 23805 Views

Men, what you need to know.

Oh, hey, i have a couple (of: "men, what you need to know")

1). Many (if not most?) of our notions and attitudes about women fly under the radar, i.e., are unconscious and part of our cultural co ...

Mon Nov 22, 2021 8:55 pm • 93 Replies • 23805 Views

Predictive Text Fun

"I'm a critical and my favorite kink is issues"

Mon Nov 22, 2021 5:38 pm • 14 Replies • 2420 Views

How often do you guys text your dom ?

i don't really like texting. It's okay for a quick touching of bases, but not a great communication tool in my opinion.

Face to face is so different from meeting someone online, everything seems d ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 10:50 pm • 14 Replies • 8167 Views

Are slaves also subs?

I disagree with objectification component being a factor of a slave and not a sub. That is single to the character or circumstances of the individual regardless of label. a slave doesn't mean you ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 7:53 pm • 53 Replies • 14060 Views

Are slaves also subs?

DrWakko... I guess understand your point, but it isn't that easy. First, as you can read there are many different interpretations. Second ... checking a box doesn't mean it is reality. Not with a pote ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 6:08 pm • 53 Replies • 14060 Views

having a willing body isn't enough

For me this is not a simple yea or no answer. Understanding and accepting myself and my kinks has been a long journey.

For me "a willing body is not my first choice, my ideal," but sometimes, a w ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 5:48 pm • 9 Replies • 3448 Views