Re: The end

How does one move past the ending of a d/s relationship when you have been betrayed? How do you stop the hate and resentment so you can move forward?

For me it helps to step (sometimes way) back a ...

Tue Nov 17, 2020 8:19 pm • 22 Replies • 8518 Views

Sexual health

In order to be able to discuss STDs without the stigma, we need to get away from using the word "clean". It is also very vague, as the OP pointed out certain infections are not routinely tested.

T ...

Tue Nov 17, 2020 7:32 pm • 20 Replies • 9808 Views

Sexual health

@justataste,
Thank you for your op and this discussion. I’m hiv poz and undetectable. I put it in all my profiles and get tested for STI’s routinely. The guy who gave it to me lied about being poz, ...

Sun Nov 15, 2020 8:33 pm • 20 Replies • 9808 Views

Question for Female Dommes and chime in anyone please

lmao... oh boy... sorry.

Like Bonnie, i'd think this guy was ignorant and taking his cues from the wrong source. i don't think an experienced sub would ever say that.

"Bitch" is a hard word to ...

Fri Nov 13, 2020 4:04 am • 30 Replies • 14177 Views

Myers Briggs and BDSM roles

Hmm, it's an interesting question but I suspect it will be fairly spread out randomly. I'm enfp-a for reference tho!

Oh wow, this is interesting. i just met a Dom guy who is ENFP-A... just on the f ...

Thu Nov 12, 2020 11:46 pm • 23 Replies • 12750 Views

How would you make your sub cum

i find this a vast topic, but i'll try not to be too 'vast' in my response lol (thank you for your indulgence). Some of my thoughts.

i'm a gay total bottom with some sub who was also married to a ...

Wed Nov 11, 2020 10:41 pm • 15 Replies • 6924 Views

Policing inappropriate messages

While i agree with the intent and desire behind DomJay and Zerospace's ideas, i lean more towards Sasa and Villanelle on this one. For me the fear would not be people like DomJay or Zerospace becomin ...

Tue Nov 10, 2020 11:08 pm • 22 Replies • 8535 Views

How long does it take you to fully trust a partner?

I learned the hard way being a sub can be real shitty because some Doms play you and play on your insecurities. Trust is overrated. Build walls thick as steel. Blockade your heart in even thicker ice. ...

Mon Nov 09, 2020 7:47 pm • 44 Replies • 15026 Views

Favorite Act of Submission

Dislikes: (Cause they exist!! let's not kid ourselves!! LMAO)
1) Long massages - Scalp massages and little strokes, could do that for hours! But when my Sir wants a full body massage... even 20 minu ...

Sun Nov 08, 2020 10:57 pm • 7 Replies • 4962 Views

Christian submission/head of household

I would be very surprised if non Christian dominants will have any success with pursuing Christian women interested in the surrendered/submissive wife ideal as they will lack the one vital factor th ...

Sun Nov 08, 2020 2:17 am • 29 Replies • 7413 Views