How long?

For me it's not a question of "how long," but "how much" and "how well" (i.e., it's not about the quantity, but the quality of exchange).

Also depends on the kind of meet up. i may want more, but ...

Fri Mar 15, 2024 8:05 pm • 9 Replies • 1550 Views

Scent and taste conditioning

i'm not into very strong scents. There's a niche in the gay community that is, they want strong scents, unbathed for days sorta scents.

i do not like really strong scents, but love subtle, natura ...

Wed Feb 28, 2024 11:51 pm • 21 Replies • 6820 Views

Concern

Not being trite... i think you have been given good input. Your situation reminds me of this song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Kk-RKo7214

Fri Feb 23, 2024 7:54 am • 18 Replies • 3233 Views

Not sure anymore.

I think just like food preference, kink preferences can change over time. When dealing with food preference we merely taste the food.
I wonder if scratching that itch will tell you which way you now ...

Fri Feb 23, 2024 7:20 am • 20 Replies • 3465 Views

Question For Hairy Men

Ha, cool question lambsone!

Gay total bottom with some sub thrown in here.

i'm naturally hairy... not gorilla hairy, but i have it everywhere, just a little on the back. Ass, legs moderate to th ...

Fri Feb 23, 2024 6:56 am • 19 Replies • 3761 Views

Bet Ya Can't Eat Just One

peanuts. especially the blistered kind. Or pretty much any kind of nut (or nutt for that matter).

Tue Feb 20, 2024 6:26 pm • 36 Replies • 3864 Views

Bet Ya Can't Eat Just One

Snickers frozen ice-cream bars.

OMG, right? i cannot believe how good these things are. The candy bar itself is no comparison and i passed the ice-cream version by for years thinking they'd just ...

Tue Feb 20, 2024 6:23 pm • 36 Replies • 3864 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

I am with Snow on this one. If you are not willing to put in effort on the initial "investment" on the encounter, how can some one expect you to put the effort in the relationship? Sub/dom is no diffe ...

Tue Feb 20, 2024 5:57 pm • 63 Replies • 12602 Views

Continue watching BDSM porn?

i agree with TopekaDom's assessment of BDSM porn being "90% crap" (and think that's true of porn in general). i can't really weigh in on straight porn, only really familiar with the gay stuff, but im ...

Fri Jan 26, 2024 9:43 pm • 9 Replies • 2049 Views

My ex revealed his kink to me and I don't know what to do

i think you've gotten some great input here. i also suspect you derived something just by writing it down, sort of like journaling. It can really help put things in order to write it down.

To me, ...

Fri Jan 19, 2024 6:40 pm • 24 Replies • 8133 Views