Open to all: What's your "hook"?

On the purely physical side, a mans ass. i have to be careful at work that i don't ogle. Sometimes a guy will walk by and i find my self turning and staring. i don't know what it is, particularly sinc ...

Mon Jun 29, 2020 4:54 pm • 73 Replies • 26556 Views

Forced Bi-sexual Encounters

Just for clarification, I don't force anything. I seduce consent to something they secretly already want to do.

i loved everything You wrote/written in this response, but particularly wanted to iso ...

Mon Jun 29, 2020 4:35 pm • 39 Replies • 38698 Views

BDSM Porn Sucks

To me porn takes the most important part out of connection, I.e, relationship. It’s acting something out that I think needs to be real.

Mon Jun 29, 2020 4:10 am • 17 Replies • 7796 Views

Open to all: What's your "hook"?

Interest with openness, a little vulnerability. The combination. Some people just wear their heart on their sleeve and are mindlessly open to the world, or even needy. But someone who simultaneously ...

Sun Jun 28, 2020 4:03 pm • 73 Replies • 26556 Views

Is it hard for some to connect this way(online)?

Some wonderfully thoughtful responses, i particularly appreciated:

@LaVieEnRose "sometimes just liking the profile of someone who likes yours is enough of an opening for a conversation to start or ...

Sun Jun 28, 2020 3:53 pm • 13 Replies • 7095 Views

Is it hard for some to connect this way(online)?

Online is a mixed bag for me. The internet shrinks the world. There are people online we would never meet face to face if that's all there was. Sometimes it makes me think of a time when some people ...

Fri Jun 26, 2020 3:43 pm • 13 Replies • 7095 Views

A great read for alpha females

"While the identifying it as a good read is a start, when you use someone else's article, in this case Dominantsoul on WordPress from 2013, you should credit it. People might accidentally take it as y ...

Thu Jun 25, 2020 9:49 pm • 8 Replies • 7138 Views

Roles vs identities

i'm glad you posted this. i often wonder about the two terms.

For me a role is something one can choose, an identity seems more intrinsic, a part of oneself? i have an aversion to "role-play" bec ...

Thu Jun 25, 2020 9:15 pm • 5 Replies • 4294 Views

Chastity

To be honest, to me this reads like a fantasy you may have? Your profile says you are widowed and the rest of your profile seems like this is exactly the kind of thing you like?

Thu Jun 25, 2020 8:45 pm • 2 Replies • 3600 Views

Managing Your Expectations

Thanks for posting the link. Took me a few to get into it, but i think they had some great discussion. Particularly enjoyed their discussion of presumption around the 36m mark (they didn't call it "pr ...

Thu Jun 25, 2020 1:56 am • 1 Replies • 2000 Views