Being born as a Dominant vs Becoming a Dominant, over time, with help

...._Wow, i love this explanation, that Dominance is born out of submission._

I disagree with this ... its fluffy nonsense ... its the sort of claptrap that inexperienced D-types tout to inexperien ...

Sun May 10, 2020 5:35 pm • 34 Replies • 13286 Views

Favorite/not so favorite things to read in a profile

Thought i'd start a thread on what turns you on in a profile, what turns you off and why?

i'll start with a few:

Turn on:
1. Openness/self awareness
2. Examples of who they are vs just telling ...

Sun May 10, 2020 3:20 am • 15 Replies • 8640 Views

Being born as a Dominant vs Becoming a Dominant, over time, with help

" it really comes down to those who were genuinely born with the innate sense of self yet understand they only truly become a Dominant once submission is given, are born"

Wow, i love this explanati ...

Sun May 10, 2020 1:55 am • 34 Replies • 13286 Views

Being born as a Dominant vs Becoming a Dominant, over time, with help

i think it's a good quesition... and i seem to say that often. Probably because i like being and people who are in a state of questioning vs a state of already knowing. It seems to me that we stop lo ...

Sun May 10, 2020 1:25 am • 34 Replies • 13286 Views

How long is too long to wait?

Wow,

That's a tough one.

Ditto.

i don't believe in a right or wrong answer here, so i only offer my perspective (this may be long, i try to be careful and that often translates into more wor ...

Sat May 09, 2020 2:06 am • 10 Replies • 5459 Views

Toys...

On another kink site we got into a discussion of buying a slink. Lots of people use SquarePeg because they have a reputation for quality, but they are also pricey. Some of us had success finding what ...

Fri May 08, 2020 6:43 pm • 3 Replies • 3458 Views

The Art of Seduction

i think the power of seduction lies in identifying areas of mutual need and/or desire? in discovering and alining compatable 'kinks'?

A simple example could be enemas. A Top/Dom/Master need or ...

Fri May 08, 2020 4:23 pm • 23 Replies • 10494 Views

The Art of Seduction

@ tallslenderguy,

I actually share a lot of similar thoughts to you around this, so I’m glad you shared, thank you. I don’t particularly understand the point of seduction either to be honest lol. ...

Fri May 08, 2020 4:02 pm • 23 Replies • 10494 Views

The Art of Seduction

The subject title of this thread keeps me coming back to it. i have so many things come to mind, questions, feelings, thoughts. They may not be cohesive, but i just want to lay them all out there, w ...

Fri May 08, 2020 8:45 am • 23 Replies • 10494 Views

Should the Dom Approach or should the Sub

Sorry for all the typos and lack of editing in my posts tonight friends. i just finished 6 13 hour shifts and am bleary, but (obviously) wanted to jump in.

Fri May 08, 2020 8:13 am • 21 Replies • 14452 Views