Confusion about Punishments

@tallslenderguy, I just want to make sure I understand your second comment correctly (sometimes I take things personally when I don't need to): You think I am passing judgment and being rigid in my th ...

Tue May 05, 2020 5:32 am • 14 Replies • 6194 Views

Re: Fetish Gear

If you could customize something, what would it be and how?

A restraining device. A restraining device that holds me deceptively comfortable that can be regularly adjusted by the Dom/Tom to o ...

Tue May 05, 2020 4:23 am • 8 Replies • 4201 Views

Fetish Gear

Plugs. For me, a plug has so many uses... all connect to me psychologically. They fill and remind the bottom all the time of who ever put it there. They open and alter. They can be remote controlle ...

Tue May 05, 2020 4:11 am • 8 Replies • 4201 Views

Chastity Turn on.

Ah, you're so welcome, i rarely lack for words so i always like a community where there are writers.

i think they are sexy too. i own 6 that i never wear lol. i have a whole 'toy' drawer that i rar ...

Tue May 05, 2020 4:08 am • 22 Replies • 11340 Views

Chastity Turn on.

The cages i have used are usually metal (though some seem to like plastic). They don't present a huge problem if one showers and cleans. Most have a hole for urniating. i have a couple of micro cages ...

Tue May 05, 2020 3:27 am • 22 Replies • 11340 Views

Confusion about Punishments

I appreciate all the feedback I am getting! @tallslenderguy, what you described is exactly what I think would work best for me. I know that positive reinforcement would make me adore a Dom! Like you, ...

Tue May 05, 2020 12:56 am • 14 Replies • 6194 Views

Re: Confusion about Punishments

I am not an experienced submissive but I do know something about behavior modification. I'm probably kicking a hornet's nest but for some time I have struggled with how some Dom's punish their subs. I ...

Mon May 04, 2020 11:02 pm • 14 Replies • 6194 Views

What is a submissive really?

@ Tallslender.....
I think you are correct, he may have unwittingly assumed the girl status in his response, but I am glad you find it applicable in your own way. Male or female, a sub mindset is ju ...

Mon May 04, 2020 8:23 pm • 30 Replies • 9247 Views

Fetish Gear

Micro cock cage. Oh hell, yes. But it only works with someone to put it on me. i like it better than the cages that hold the shaft, actually more comfortable for me because on me it works by internal ...

Mon May 04, 2020 6:29 pm • 8 Replies • 4201 Views

What is a submissive really?

My standard disclaimer applies. I write from the perspective and world-view of an alpha hetero male within a 365-24/7 TPE, RL long term relationship. Not saying this is the only way for everyone. S ...

Mon May 04, 2020 5:41 pm • 30 Replies • 9247 Views