Chastity as a Fetish

This is such a complex topic to me, it has so many angles just in my imagination. i can't fathom anyone being able to answer this in a complete way because the answer depends on the people involved? ...

Fri May 08, 2020 8:10 am • 15 Replies • 17792 Views

Should the Dom Approach or should the Sub

i was at work typing on my phone during a break and feel like i rushed my post. Not sure it that is just a "feeling" on my part, but there may be spaces to fill in.

i think hard and fast rules ofte ...

Fri May 08, 2020 6:37 am • 21 Replies • 14449 Views

Should the Dom Approach or should the Sub

i think this is a great discussion.
i agree with those who think either can approach, but honestly i won’t approach an invisible person. Guys who do not have a profile where they say something about ...

Fri May 08, 2020 3:29 am • 21 Replies • 14449 Views

Musical Revelations

“Moondance” Van Morrison

Fri May 08, 2020 12:07 am • 11 Replies • 6873 Views

Residual effects of the past

Our memories are so flawed, it’s hard to put much realistic weight on retrospective analysis. Not that I think it should not be done, but at least taken with a grain of salt. I’m a big believer in pro ...

Wed May 06, 2020 9:46 pm • 4 Replies • 3017 Views

A few things that a new submissive should know

Submitting who you are to a person is not the same as changing who you are for a person.

Wed May 06, 2020 3:23 pm • 8 Replies • 5919 Views

Confusion about Punishments

@tallslenderguy, I just want to make sure I understand your second comment correctly (sometimes I take things personally when I don't need to): You think I am passing judgment and being rigid in my th ...

Tue May 05, 2020 5:32 am • 14 Replies • 7699 Views

Re: Fetish Gear

If you could customize something, what would it be and how?

A restraining device. A restraining device that holds me deceptively comfortable that can be regularly adjusted by the Dom/Tom to o ...

Tue May 05, 2020 4:23 am • 8 Replies • 5528 Views

Fetish Gear

Plugs. For me, a plug has so many uses... all connect to me psychologically. They fill and remind the bottom all the time of who ever put it there. They open and alter. They can be remote controlle ...

Tue May 05, 2020 4:11 am • 8 Replies • 5528 Views

Chastity Turn on.

Ah, you're so welcome, i rarely lack for words so i always like a community where there are writers.

i think they are sexy too. i own 6 that i never wear lol. i have a whole 'toy' drawer that i rar ...

Tue May 05, 2020 4:08 am • 22 Replies • 13680 Views