Dominant or Master...

It's a great question and what does it truly mean for you in a relationship or connection.

Many have said it's based in TPE or TPC. Some also say it's based on rules and the depth of such. I als ...

Mon Jul 06, 2020 6:49 am • 16 Replies • 6407 Views

Newb stuff

We should always remember we are all human and we just have different needs. That doesn't make anyone bad, just different.

Back to the point, and this kind of wraps around, I think it's import ...

Mon May 11, 2020 7:01 am • 14 Replies • 6142 Views

Non-Sexual Dominance

The basic, fundamental, and foundation of any D/s dynamic should have nothing to do with sex or an aspect of sex. What?? Read on..

I can imagine many will disagree but I don't care who you are.. ...

Sun Apr 26, 2020 9:16 am • 6 Replies • 5899 Views

Why does being in charge turn you on?

Well.. the question may have been directed at a Dom female but the title on this post seems pretty open.
Everyone has natural wants and needs.. creative turn on's and fantasies. It's completely ...

Wed Mar 04, 2020 9:18 am • 7 Replies • 4128 Views

If you’re a Dom make sure your SUB has some fun as well…

Agreed Sam and it's great you went there to give her what she needs. That's important.
I hear more and more on this site there are a lot of Dom's out there that are only in it for themselves. The ...

Mon Mar 02, 2020 8:30 am • 4 Replies • 3192 Views

What is more important -Compatibility or Chemistry

Interesting question but my thought is you have to have both to some degree.

That's like saying what's more important, air or water?
As we are humans, we can't survive on just one.

In the sam ...

Thu Feb 27, 2020 3:02 am • 17 Replies • 5073 Views

Subtlety

Sometimes it truly is the subtle things that can mean the most, be more erotic, a little connection to the unknown.
If I walk up behind my sub in the morning, wrap my arms around her, kiss her neck ...

Sat Jan 25, 2020 8:31 am • 11 Replies • 5500 Views

Mentor no mentor

Great to hear you're educating yourself. That's truly what's most important.
You don't need to learn "under" someone. There is a ton of information out there (some good, some bad) and what you'l ...

Tue Jan 14, 2020 9:01 am • 9 Replies • 2854 Views

Your New Year's Resolution for 2020

As we move on to yet another new year, I'm curious what resolutions people have in mind. 

I know we can all think of things we can do, whether it be working out more, eating better, healthy habits, ...

Mon Dec 30, 2019 6:36 am • 9 Replies • 3440 Views

Is figging safe?

Yes, for the most part it is safe. (unless your partner is allergic to ginger)
Depending on the person, they will have a warm and tingly sensation and for others quite an intense burning feeling. ...

Fri Dec 27, 2019 6:42 am • 6 Replies • 4004 Views