Opinion needed

Thank you both. He finally replied saying he slept all day because he is still recovering and that I was right, there has been much happening and then both of us getting sick. But my mind keeps going ...

Mon Jan 24, 2022 1:46 am • 12 Replies • 3729 Views

Opinion needed

Honestly, if he were interested, he would’ve responded to the first link. He’s ignoring your needs and a real Dom wouldn’t do that.
I hate saying all this because I’m also telling myself that as I a ...

Mon Jan 24, 2022 12:04 am • 12 Replies • 3729 Views

BDSM on a "Need to Know" basis?

I don’t necessarily tell people specifically that I’m into BDSM, but I’m pretty sure most people who are around me long enough have figured it out because I don’t have a filter between my brain and my ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 8:26 pm • 8 Replies • 2920 Views

Possibly a stupid question...

I guess I didn’t think of it like that. There are a few things I told him were off limits until I’ve taught him how to do them properly and trust him enough (restraints/breath play) and he seems like ...

Tue Feb 25, 2020 6:31 am • 7 Replies • 4698 Views

Possibly a stupid question...

Is it possible to be a Dominant bottom? It sounds like an oxymoron, but I’ve found that most of the time, I like to be the one in control and be the one on my knees at the same time.
There’s this ...

Tue Feb 25, 2020 6:03 am • 7 Replies • 4698 Views

Hint Dropping?

I’m not sure how to go about dropping hints to someone I’m interested in that I’m not a very vanilla gal. I feel like he’s possibly trying to feel me out and I want to drop hints to him that I’m not ...

Sat Feb 01, 2020 10:48 am • 13 Replies • 7216 Views

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Wed Jan 29, 2020 9:40 pm • 22 Replies • 11253 Views

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Can I just say how much I loved reading your rant? I’ve been on here not even 24hrs and already had dudes thinking they can talk any kind of way to me because I’m a switch/sub and apparently identify ...

Sat Jan 25, 2020 6:15 pm • 16 Replies • 6242 Views

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Fri Jan 24, 2020 10:24 pm • 3161 Replies • 997676 Views