Post-Dynamic Questions

I'm not saying it's wrong. It would depend a lot on the circumstances, what the questions are and who you ask.
Once I had a friend. He identified as a Dom but he was very insecure. We were members of ...

Sun Jan 17, 2021 9:55 am • 9 Replies • 3119 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

I actually have a problem with this, and I probably shouldn't confess, but showing submission, whether consciously or not.
A curtsy or addressing me as Sir. If a waitress does this she automatically ...

Sun Jan 17, 2021 9:30 am • 119 Replies • 40928 Views

Dear Kit...BDSM vs Love

What's super sensitive about it?

Some do love, some do business, some do both. What matters is to agree upon it or deal with change.
I for one have loved all my partners. Slaves, subs or vanillas. ...

Sun Jan 17, 2021 7:23 am • 12 Replies • 5184 Views

Help please

I don't know what kind of background check you did, but I think you would be crazy to meet him without doing what you can to be safe.
I'm not always doing things the way one are supposed to in this " ...

Sun Dec 13, 2020 4:10 am • 32 Replies • 11203 Views

Does anyone else share this fetish? "Object penetration"

Same for me when a 20 something starts correcting my knowledge of the lifestyle But in my scenario... I pretty much want to stick the stick in their eye. Is that wrong? It doesn't feel wrong... hmm
I ...

Tue Dec 08, 2020 4:46 am • 27 Replies • 14143 Views

Re: Let’s talk about WETNESS ladies/gents

Has anyone else experiences an insane amount of wetness like this? Has anyone experienced a sudden surge in hormones like this? How do I overcome being embarrassed about it?

I have experienced this ...

Mon Dec 07, 2020 7:06 pm • 11 Replies • 6508 Views

So...How Did Yall Meet?

I found K on a BDSM site. I found my ex on a BDSM site. I found my ex before her on a BDSM site.
So I think I'll stick to BDSM sites. They seem to work for me.

Fri Dec 04, 2020 4:11 am • 24 Replies • 8699 Views

What is it really...

And finally, you also said they're BOTH attracted to each other. But that isn't a difference is it? Unless you mean they're attracted to each other for different reasons. In that case your statement m ...

Sun Nov 29, 2020 2:20 am • 40 Replies • 13507 Views

What is it really...

You failed to say why.
I don't have to say why I don't think it's that complicated. But Ok. I think you overthink things and add a lot of unrelated things instead of stripping things down to basics. ...

Sat Nov 28, 2020 5:25 pm • 40 Replies • 13507 Views

What is it really...

@Taramafor
I don't think it's that complicated.

Fri Nov 27, 2020 10:18 pm • 40 Replies • 13507 Views