When it goes wrong

@Miki

I agree. I don't think anyone can argue with that. The problem with the thread is OP still think this is BDSM and doesn't understand that consent is what separates BDSM from abuse. Abuse can ...

Thu Nov 26, 2020 3:06 pm • 29 Replies • 6202 Views

When it goes wrong

You also fail to say why or how without proof.

I'm not trying to pick a fight with you even if we obviously has very different views on some of the basics of BDSM, but don't you see the irony here? ...

Thu Nov 26, 2020 2:32 pm • 29 Replies • 6202 Views

Discouraged

There is a lot of fakes, scams, role players and liers online. But the same goes for meeting AFK. It's just easier to hide online.
I've met real, genuine and wonderful people online. The first sub I ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 5:41 pm • 28 Replies • 8245 Views

When it goes wrong

If somebody does something or agree to something out of willingness I would say they have consented.
You're not making sense.

Tue Nov 24, 2020 3:06 pm • 29 Replies • 6202 Views

When it goes wrong

I totally not agree with you.
As I stated already, not everyone in BDSM does consent.
And I once again state if they don't it's not BDSM. I've done CNC for years. Some consider this on the more extr ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 2:43 pm • 29 Replies • 6202 Views

When it goes wrong

I didn't get a quote button on your post but I''ll try anyway

BDSM is about control. Not everyone in BDSM does things with consent. None consent situations happen. Most often willingly. Both eyes ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 2:04 pm • 29 Replies • 6202 Views

When it goes wrong

With all due respect I don't think this happened. Unless you actually know this person in real life and has seen proof of this in form of newspaper reports or court files she is taking you for a ride. ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 1:07 pm • 29 Replies • 6202 Views

Age-Gaps - Attracting Interest in Older Men - Not Reciprocated

As one of those older Doms who sometimes contacts younger subs (even if I don't think I've ever contacted OP) this gives me two thoughts.
1. How can you expect people to respect a limit if they don't ...

Mon Nov 23, 2020 5:43 pm • 25 Replies • 8362 Views

Cheesecake & Bedroom Openness

I would ask myself 3 questions.
1. What do I need?
2. What do I want?
3. What are my limits?

Then I would ask the other person. If her limits are my needs then it is a dealbreaker. If her limits ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 4:02 am • 8 Replies • 2523 Views

Ever worried you’ll end up alone?

I have never really been alone. But when I got out of my 16 years long marriage things didn't look very bright. I felt old. I felt used up and the world had changed a lot while I was living in my bubb ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 3:52 am • 79 Replies • 20490 Views