What is the purpose? Looking for clarification...

I've used it more or less like a butt plug on my partners. Since you can tie it to things and body parts it's a bit more fun. If you penetrate a female while she has it inserted you can change the pre ...

Fri Nov 27, 2020 5:46 am • 8 Replies • 4605 Views

Collaring

To me it depends a little bit on the situation. If I have a ONS, a temporary arrangement or if I'm training/teaching someone I usually put a collar on them. This symbolizes they belong to me for the t ...

Fri Nov 27, 2020 3:30 am • 16 Replies • 7035 Views

Grey Gods Explanation

Hannah Montana not being a virgin.

(And I wouldn't advice you to let Germans teach you about Norse Mythology. They weren't really part of it and they have a history of misunderstanding it and mixin ...

Fri Nov 27, 2020 3:03 am • 9 Replies • 3746 Views

Online Play

I have done role playing online on chat apps. This gets old fast and after the first few times it' not so fun anymore. Probably since I don't see BDSM as role playing but as a lifestyle. I've had a fe ...

Fri Nov 27, 2020 2:41 am • 6 Replies • 3738 Views

Does anyone else share this fetish? "Object penetration"

I wouldn't say it's a fetish, but I think it's very nice to insert things in girls openings.
With my ex I did this a lot. One of my (our) favorites was inserting an ice cream and when it melted drink ...

Fri Nov 27, 2020 2:32 am • 27 Replies • 14145 Views

Punishing a submissive

What is the punishment for?

Thu Nov 26, 2020 11:50 pm • 10 Replies • 6122 Views

Question: How can you be a good Dom at 22 years old?

I would say a 22 years old could be a good Dom. He can have just as much knowledge as someone older, he can have an ability to understand his sub and the sub's needs. What he might lack is experience, ...

Thu Nov 26, 2020 11:32 pm • 33 Replies • 10392 Views

What is it really...

What is it really... that defines a Dominant from a submissive?
I would say the Dominant is attracted to submissives and the submissive is attracted to Dominants. That is the difference.

Thu Nov 26, 2020 11:20 pm • 40 Replies • 13509 Views

When it goes wrong

@Miki

I agree. I don't think anyone can argue with that. The problem with the thread is OP still think this is BDSM and doesn't understand that consent is what separates BDSM from abuse. Abuse can ...

Thu Nov 26, 2020 3:06 pm • 29 Replies • 7680 Views

When it goes wrong

You also fail to say why or how without proof.

I'm not trying to pick a fight with you even if we obviously has very different views on some of the basics of BDSM, but don't you see the irony here? ...

Thu Nov 26, 2020 2:32 pm • 29 Replies • 7680 Views