Tips for kneeling with 40 year old knees.

If kneeling is a challenge would it be possible for you and your partner to come up with positions and postures that might convey a similar feeling or style but would be more kind on the knees? I rea ...

Mon Jan 25, 2021 12:54 am • 18 Replies • 5459 Views

Advice on a new pet!

Congratulations on your new family member! 🐾Hopefully, the place where you are adopting the dog from will provide you with some suggestions and guidelines on how to help your pet successfully integr ...

Wed Jan 06, 2021 7:16 pm • 4 Replies • 1759 Views

Wax play?

Finally a chance to follow up to this posting. Again, a huge thank you to those of you who took the time to share your bits of info. We FINALLY had a chance to play with wax and it would appear to be ...

Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:35 am • 9 Replies • 4638 Views

Movie quotes part 2

“For everything, there is a first time.” -Spock

Fri Jul 10, 2020 8:34 pm • 14 Replies • 5559 Views

Best Practices for Relationships outside of Marriage

Greetings,
In your profile you state that you are mired in a sexless marriage. First, I’m truly sorry to read that. The lack of connection and intimacy and ultimately physical sex that can sometimes ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 8:54 pm • 9 Replies • 2803 Views

Movie quotes part 1

“Oh, my dear friend. How I’ve missed you.” — C-3PO

Thu Jul 02, 2020 8:49 pm • 16 Replies • 5290 Views

BDSM Porn Sucks

As someone new to BDSM and kink I wish that some of the stuff would show more of the scene set up, show interaction and CONNECTION. Am I viewing a “funishment” or can they share or hint as to what occ ...

Mon Jun 29, 2020 2:51 am • 17 Replies • 6114 Views

Question for Dom or Sub, would like both perspectives

I’m thinking that the fact that both parties were drunk and wasted would make the collaring or any sort of agreement null and void. Not SSC or RACK. The fact that both people were in an impaired state ...

Mon Jun 15, 2020 4:04 am • 29 Replies • 10504 Views

Newbs

I’m not sure it is a gender thing per se but for people that are new to the BDSM/Kink world, or at least in my situation things can be intimidating and overwhelming and therefore it can be difficult ...

Wed Jun 10, 2020 8:35 pm • 7 Replies • 3248 Views

informal Poll

I would hope that if you took the time to write someone that they would have the decency to write back and advise, “No, I’m not interested thank you” OR yes, and engage in further in depth conversati ...

Tue Jun 09, 2020 5:55 pm • 20 Replies • 5969 Views