Gratitude

Cultivating an attitude of gratitude begins with a choice. Living such a life is a series of choices. It takes a conscious effort to recognize one's blessings, and to be grateful for them, especiall ...

Thu Apr 16, 2020 7:38 pm • 3 Replies • 1869 Views

A letter to female submissives (especially newer) from a fellow newer submissive...

Keep the bar set high my fellow subs. Just because we are subs, never lower the bar to where we are kneeling, but instead, raise it BECAUSE we are kneeling.

This bears repeating. (And how the hel ...

Thu Apr 16, 2020 12:15 am • 40 Replies • 19042 Views

Less attractive?

"Does having a child make you less attractive?"

NO. It makes you more attractive, provided you are a good mother to them.

Wed Apr 15, 2020 11:10 pm • 47 Replies • 19782 Views

Experience Needed

I agree with everything previously said.

Yes, get educated. Read some books. But, my first, and best advice is: Master *yourself* first. At 18 years old, you have a lot of "rough edges", we all ...

Wed Apr 15, 2020 9:33 pm • 14 Replies • 4979 Views

Training a brand new sub

Learn *yourself* first. Master *yourself* first. Do you have leadership qualities? Grow them. If you don't have them. Learn them. Dominance isn't about forcing a girl to her knees. It's about i ...

Wed Apr 15, 2020 9:25 pm • 3 Replies • 3165 Views

Listening to your gut and knowing when to walk away.

This is a fantastic post! Let's dive in...

1. Knowing yourself well. - What are your triggers? What makes you upset or unsettled? How do you talk yourself down when you are really worked up? Wher ...

Wed Apr 15, 2020 4:36 am • 8 Replies • 2616 Views

Safewords...

Every dynamic is different with different stages of trust, respect, along with growing in self, open communication, learning...we never stop growing and learning. What's good or works for some, may no ...

Mon Apr 13, 2020 6:34 am • 17 Replies • 5292 Views

Corrupt A Wish

I wish I was a movie star

Granted: You are a movie star of snuff films.

I wish I could win on Jeopardy.

Mon Apr 13, 2020 3:08 am • 287 Replies • 81274 Views

Safewords...

@redbotmgirl

I find that open, honest communication makes the use of safewords unnecessary, and overly, well, fake or staged.

Again, my dynamic is not as an online dom. And I don't do "scenes". ...

Mon Apr 13, 2020 3:05 am • 17 Replies • 5292 Views

Protection

Counterpoint.

What does online "protection" really mean? You are the one sitting in front of the monitor and keyboard. You are the one with the power to turn it off, delete a post, block a member ...

Sun Apr 12, 2020 10:52 pm • 21 Replies • 10293 Views