How do you get over your first bdsm breakup

like you do any kind of break up from someone you love. One day at a time. cry get angry then slowly you can move on.

I am sorry you are going through this

Tue Jan 03, 2023 10:09 pm • 37 Replies • 6699 Views

Doms willing to occasionally be submissive

negotiation and compromise to me are two different things. compromise to me (and i only speak for me) means i am doing something to just make one person happy not me. Meaning i am with someone who des ...

Wed Nov 02, 2022 10:28 pm • 18 Replies • 2963 Views

Sub responsibility doesn't exist on this site it seems.

ok since everyone seems to be skipping over this part. i am going there....giving someone a blow job is kink? Dam i seem to be doing things wrong in that case ...pass the popcorn please

Tue Mar 08, 2022 12:11 am • 62 Replies • 10148 Views

Re: Is this a legitimate escape ?

Okay I have a friend that comes over and locks me up and she'll go. coming back an hour or four later. Lets me go and everybody's happy. One caveat is if I get loose I get to tie her up. She doesn't w ...

Wed Feb 09, 2022 10:30 pm • 26 Replies • 5183 Views

Judgemental people

You are so right there is tremendous judgment here. If you don't believe it, go into chat, express an opinion, and see what happens.

Oh I know! Express an opinion and you're jumped on and If you fa ...

Wed Jan 19, 2022 9:27 pm • 55 Replies • 14505 Views

If your logical and intelligent as a sub is that a bad thing

I agree Communication is key, don’t completely judge a book by its cover. But I would keep an eye out for some key words that may be hard limits to yourself or red flags in general.



Making a ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 9:39 pm • 21 Replies • 4815 Views

If your logical and intelligent as a sub is that a bad thing

I never really thought of it that way maybe I am being judgemental I never meant to be that way

sometimes it takes a different view to see it in a new light.

There are a few things that you sai ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 9:32 pm • 21 Replies • 4815 Views

If your logical and intelligent as a sub is that a bad thing

Ok. so i have read your profile to get a feel for what you are actually seeking. i will be honest and say it sounds like you are judging people based on a few private messages. Just because someone ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 8:45 pm • 21 Replies • 4815 Views

Punishments and Rewards

Reward - Daddy/Dom gives sub/little a bath, dries her off, brushes her hair, and puts her in the new bedwear that he bought for her to sleep in.
Punishment - Sub/little on her knees with an eye dropp ...

Tue Jan 11, 2022 9:38 pm • 24 Replies • 8631 Views

Asking advise

Ironworld. you shouldn't assume things because as the old saying goes when you assume something you make an ass out of you and me maybe instead of automatically assuming what the situation might be yo ...

Fri Dec 10, 2021 4:38 pm • 19 Replies • 4491 Views