Strictly Online D/s Relationship 1:1 Pros and Cons

I'm going to go out on a limb here. A lot of people have written that online allows people to hide their true selves and portray themselves as something they aren't.

I take the opposite view. Peopl ...

Thu Nov 10, 2022 8:42 am • 60 Replies • 20713 Views

What characteristics do you look for in a potential dom/sub?

Someone who is interested in getting to know me as a person--and someone that I am interested in getting to know as a person. The sex stuff comes secondary.

Sat Nov 05, 2022 7:26 am • 16 Replies • 4588 Views

Tasks rewards punishments

Is he already in a chastity cage?

Exactly what I was going to ask. There is another couple on the web who write about chastity and femdom. The guy has been locked for over two years and he uses a s ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 3:54 am • 10 Replies • 5482 Views

The right pairing for mentorship?

I could not mentor a dominant. I've written about this before, but to me, dominance means leadership and I as a submissive would be putting myself in a leadership role by mentoring the dominant. This ...

Thu Nov 03, 2022 9:03 pm • 8 Replies • 2024 Views

Contract Templates?

Check out this site.

https://www.o.school/article/make-a-bdsm-contract

It has several templates and quite a bit of content for creating contracts.

I found this by doing a simple google search ...

Mon Oct 31, 2022 5:47 am • 7 Replies • 5308 Views

Happiness in a relationship

That's me.

Sat Oct 29, 2022 11:33 pm • 29 Replies • 5870 Views

Happiness in a relationship

Growth means working toward some goal. This works best when it's chosen by the individual in question -- pushing oneself to be better physically, intellectually, professionally -- whatever they think ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 11:15 pm • 29 Replies • 5870 Views

Happiness in a relationship

Love ya back, Dom Pinnacle, but if one partner is growing while the other remains stagnant, it isn't going to work out. Everything changes, and if one partner is striving to improve while the other re ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 10:52 pm • 29 Replies • 5870 Views

Happiness in a relationship

Reaching your goals doesn't mean you stop growing as a person. From my experience, the most top-notch people have even bigger goals than when they started. There's nothing more boring and depressing t ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 10:45 pm • 29 Replies • 5870 Views

Happiness in a relationship

13) If one partner becomes kinky while the other remains vanilla.

14) The two parties' sex drives become vastly different. One person goes completely asexual while the other one still wants a norma ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 10:09 pm • 29 Replies • 5870 Views