Struggling

CurvyEnglishRose,

I'm straight from the hip, blunt, not trying to offend.
He is not Domming you.
When he is not present , there is no Domming going on, and without a Dom, there is no submittin ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 12:41 pm • 24 Replies • 4374 Views

Re: Support

Presently going through a messy divorce and find myself financially unable to attend the usual munches and events I'm used to after all the legal fees.

So i look to the community for support. Kind ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 12:28 pm • 12 Replies • 1819 Views

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

It's definitely something I don't think about, mainly because that's not a can of worms I'm ready to open.

There's just nearly not enough good and competent therapist for all that shit.

Hunh?
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Sat Sep 03, 2022 12:15 pm • 37 Replies • 5489 Views

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

No I don’t try to think too much about why I like the kinks that I do. I know some people are very interested in the reasons they enjoy certain kinks but it just doesn’t matter to me. Thinking too muc ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 12:14 pm • 37 Replies • 5489 Views

Advice/insights for new bottom(sub?) overwhelmed by emotions

I think are a few layers to this experience but I’m guessing based on the information you posted so could be wrong. Select anything useful and disregard the rest.

You describe your relationship as ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 10:11 am • 18 Replies • 3451 Views

Advice/insights for new bottom(sub?) overwhelmed by emotions

I think are a few layers to this experience but I’m guessing based on the information you posted so could be wrong. Select anything useful and disregard the rest.

You describe your relationship as ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 10:07 am • 18 Replies • 3451 Views

Advice/insights for new bottom(sub?) overwhelmed by emotions

Hi RiverT. I am also a newbie to BDSM and went through a very similar experience back in July when I was in CA. On Bumble, I matched with a nice looking man my age who said he had a "few kinks" on h ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 5:39 am • 18 Replies • 3451 Views

Advice/insights for new bottom(sub?) overwhelmed by emotions

@RiverT,
All good advice. You should make sure to either attend some BDSM 101 classes , read articles, read forum questions, whether they are open or not.

Aftercare is a word you may want to pay ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 5:38 am • 18 Replies • 3451 Views

Abuse veiled as protocol

Sorry, I disagree with protocol being veiled as abuse. If the list of things in this post are experienced by anyone it is abuse, pure and simple.

Two reasons I say this, the first being consent ne ...

Wed Aug 31, 2022 8:32 am • 26 Replies • 3851 Views

Abuse veiled as protocol

The kind of protocols You refer to are not abusive if they are consented to by someone who can withdraw their consent or leave the relationship.

One may be manipulated and coerced into giving cons ...

Wed Aug 31, 2022 8:26 am • 26 Replies • 3851 Views