Determining informed consent

Subtle-You seem to have missed my point entirely. How can someone to consent to something they have no frame of reference for? I used impact play as an example as it is simplest to demonstrate. How ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 2:06 am • 29 Replies • 6609 Views

Determining informed consent

This discussion just reminded me of a partner I had long ago that I completely forgot about, but it might be helpful to some who have worry issues about informed consent with regard to impact play (wh ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 2:02 am • 29 Replies • 6609 Views

Determining informed consent

Here's an interesting wrinkle for you. What about when informed consent is impossible?

For example impact play. I can explain what will happened, precisely what I intend to do, the physics behind ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 1:55 am • 29 Replies • 6609 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

On the other hand, a polite conversation starter from a sub is refreshing.

I think I'm beginning to catch on.

Thu Aug 18, 2022 12:54 pm • 119 Replies • 26974 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

I don't normally ignore messages, but if I feel pressured/cajoled/manipulated then I'll end the conversation. I have to know the person is sane, and on the same wave length as me before I care to see ...

Thu Aug 18, 2022 12:51 pm • 119 Replies • 26974 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

I ignore very few. Most people are ok.

Come on, are you making a joke?

Thu Aug 18, 2022 12:45 pm • 119 Replies • 26974 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

After reading everyone’s replies to this thread, particularly those from the women, what is worthy of a reply?
Doesn’t get a response…
-Grammar
-Sexual
-Too long or boring
-Pointing out common ...

Thu Aug 18, 2022 12:42 pm • 119 Replies • 26974 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

I ignore messages that ask very intimate questions in the first messages. Or telling me what to do, being pushy. Dude, you are not my dom. You have no right to tell me anything.

And I am also on t ...

Thu Aug 18, 2022 12:31 pm • 119 Replies • 26974 Views

Judgemental people

If you express extreme right wing, racist, homophobic, transphobic, gate keeping one twue way, support an abuser, dismiss and deride others valid consent based kink choices, yes I am going to judge yo ...

Thu Aug 18, 2022 12:13 pm • 55 Replies • 14714 Views

Judgemental people

White Knight​(dom male){Not lookin}
"People tend to judge what they fear whether that be people or acts !!"
............not necessarily. In some cases perhaps. An abuse survivor might not compreh ...

Thu Aug 18, 2022 11:38 am • 55 Replies • 14714 Views