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Many have blocking fetishes. There are so ...

Mon Sep 20, 2021 2:18 am • 57 Replies • 19160 Views

Blocking

Welcome to the cage,

I totally agree with needless blocking but, alas, when in rome .. well you couldn't have said it better, there should be stricter guidelines for blocking or atleast additiona ...

Sun Sep 19, 2021 2:56 am • 72 Replies • 16508 Views

How do you determine the difference for yourself?

Taramafor,

Do you believe people, places, things give off energy ?

Sat Sep 18, 2021 9:12 am • 28 Replies • 5226 Views

Blow Jobs as punishment

@kitzer

I reread the post several times before I gave it some thought and then wrote what I did. So I just went and reread it again. She is saying those are her real punishments, that is what is wr ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 11:04 pm • 23 Replies • 11438 Views

MFM

OP,
There is a 'community' and under the Bdsm umbrella comes kink, fetishes, D/s, M/s with the last two capable of being capable of being broken down even further.
Communities can and are often d ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 10:41 pm • 9 Replies • 3455 Views

Are you lying to yourself? The importance of quesitons.

@Teramafor

OP you do not get to decide who is wrong and who is right except when it comes to yourself. Hopefully for most in discussions it is not a tit for tat back and forth. I have been guilty o ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 8:08 pm • 10 Replies • 3429 Views

Re: Misbehaving on purpose

NOT playing with me, stonewalling me, not petting me, and depriving me of sex are my real punishments



You do not specify a time frame for your relationship and it may or may not be relevant.
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Fri Sep 17, 2021 7:53 pm • 23 Replies • 11438 Views

Disciplining my Submissive.

I believe some people may be misunderstanding what you wrote,


She forgets because she might be not find them interesting and useless.

Please correct me if I am wrong, I believe you are statin ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 2:02 pm • 17 Replies • 9111 Views

absolutely love using this as a punishment , or even using d

Do you mean funishment ? Punishment and funishment are two separate concepts.

And OP,
Are you in a CNC, is that funishment (his cock always being shoved into your mouth) or is that during a scene ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 12:58 pm • 23 Replies • 11438 Views

Is it unacceptable to ask a dom for a nude ?

@tsi (sub female)

You used the word scared concerning speaking up.
What are you scared of ? That the Dom will say no, get mad, ghost you?

Submissives are people just like dominants are people ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 12:45 pm • 32 Replies • 11559 Views