How do you switch your mind back to Vanilla in a new relationship.

I have been in Vanilla relationships before but they never last too long to be fair, Your both right AKittenforSir and Harlequin, i need to be myself and i need to speak to her about it, I know it`s n ...

Fri Feb 07, 2020 5:23 am • 4 Replies • 2622 Views

How do you switch your mind back to Vanilla in a new relatio

So here`s the thing. I have not had Vanilla relationship in a long time way too long, Only got back in the lifestyle a couple of years ago but prior to that it had been a while, not really been a in a ...

Fri Feb 07, 2020 4:43 am • 4 Replies • 2622 Views

Initiating the conversation in the “real-world”...

Yes it is possible, My first experience started out with me supposedly being the sub, But she couldn`t dominate me and she switched, I was the only person she had ever been submissve to and I had neve ...

Wed Jan 15, 2020 8:58 am • 17 Replies • 6576 Views

Your New Year's Resolution for 2020

My New Year`s resolution as every year is to roll my eyes and laugh at my family when they tell me what their`s is and fail miserably lol Im slightly evil but i do encourage them because I do want the ...

Wed Jan 08, 2020 4:26 am • 9 Replies • 3806 Views

Online Role Play

Just been reading the case of Hope Barden https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-48790961 Just wondering what other people think about it.

From what i can tell she was an online ...

Sun Jul 07, 2019 7:56 am • 4 Replies • 3515 Views

Permission

I have zero interest in other people`s relationship`s, I only noticed it because I was so bored i was profile browsing which Is something as a rule i would never do unless i was speaking to that actua ...

Wed May 08, 2019 3:46 am • 34 Replies • 19426 Views

Permission

Ok so maybe In person at a BDSM gathering say, Then I can understand It a little bit,Thats why we have gags lol. But online when there is a perfectly good Block button for any undesirables.

I`m not ...

Tue May 07, 2019 4:45 pm • 34 Replies • 19426 Views

Permission

For me this lifestyle is strongly based on Trust if you expect someone to ask Permission to speak to their sub then that to me speaks of their being no trust, And if you dont trust your sub then their ...

Sun May 05, 2019 8:16 am • 34 Replies • 19426 Views

Permission

So tonight I have been flitting about on a few profiles,It`s not something I normally do unless im actually speaking to said person, But anyways i keep seeing "You must ask my Master/Mistresses permis ...

Sun May 05, 2019 6:33 am • 34 Replies • 19426 Views

Different ideas.

Tons of things around the house can be used,lotions,butter, olive oil or even cooking oil if your not too fussy lol creme`s fresh and beauty types, Moisturiser, Anything that basically will rub into t ...

Thu Sep 21, 2017 4:53 pm • 6 Replies • 5658 Views