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Posts by MisterAshmodai(dom male)

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The Tattoo

I have not done any kinky tattooing as part of a dynamic (I have vanilla tattoos with my partners), but I have done scarification both on myself and my partners.
One of my partners bears a faux auto ...

Tue Mar 30, 2021 12:02 am • 30 Replies • 14041 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

The Tattoo

182

How do you like to be approached?

Just offer any sort of salutation. Say hello, good (time of day), bon (temp du jour), hey, greetings, ‘ello, whatever.
(Don’t start the conversation with ‘whatever’; it makes a poor first impression ...

Mon Mar 29, 2021 6:35 pm • 23 Replies • 8761 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

How do you like to be approached?

183

Earning Your Leathers

As much as I appreciate the level to which the community offers support and guidance for new practitioners, I do view the relevance on an individual basis.
I have been a practicing D type for over a ...

Sun Mar 28, 2021 2:34 am • 9 Replies • 3377 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Earning Your Leathers

184

So... anal.

As with just about everything else, it probably depends on the Dom.

For me, anal play of all sorts is not only a fetish, but pretty integral to my scenes and play, even in online dynamics.
Howeve ...

Tue Mar 23, 2021 1:43 am • 47 Replies • 24815 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Maledom

Topic

So... anal.

185

Sex and where to get it

Laylamini beat me to the poly punch.

Mon Mar 22, 2021 7:48 am • 20 Replies • 9084 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Sex and where to get it

186

What do you actually *do* in your lifestyle?

Depending on whether I am traveling or at home (or traveling with a sub), my day begins with sexual service (my favorite way to wake up).

After this, I check my phones and computers for messages f ...

Wed Mar 17, 2021 2:34 am • 25 Replies • 12218 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

What do you actually *do* in your lifestyle?

187

Specialization and Role Filling

Degradation and humiliation are interesting concepts as, like with most kinks, they encompass many different elements. The power exchange that comes with this play can be on a level other than that fo ...

Thu Mar 11, 2021 4:10 am • 5 Replies • 3408 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Specialization and Role Filling

188

Dom Bashing.

There are a lot of reasons to consider why bashing in any form takes place. Despite my belief that kink is rapidly becoming the new black (and all of the issues this entails), it is still a rather mar ...

Thu Mar 11, 2021 1:59 am • 10 Replies • 6083 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Dom Bashing.

189

Real Life, Online or Both?

I engage in both in person and online, primarily because I travel often for work. I have my partners at home with whom I spend both alone time and group time, then I have had partners in the cities I ...

Thu Mar 11, 2021 1:46 am • 36 Replies • 12623 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Real Life, Online or Both?

190

Differences between kink and lifestyle

Answering under the pretense that the ‘just ask’ option is off the table (sneaky ‘doms’), there is no way to tell right off the bat. There are certainly red flags, but like all things, red flags are s ...

Thu Mar 11, 2021 1:39 am • 22 Replies • 10755 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Differences between kink and lifestyle