Training a sub free or paid?

I’m going to echo what others have said: this screams scam. Now there are legitimate instances where Dom(me)s charge a fee to train a sub/slave. But in my experience you tend to meet these people th ...

Mon Dec 14, 2020 4:04 pm • 18 Replies • 8381 Views

Dominant or Master...

In the Same way a dog is a type of animal, every dog is an animal but not every animal is a dog, so too masters are dominates but not every doms are masters. Generally a dom is more paired with a sub ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 6:28 pm • 16 Replies • 6416 Views

Music

It kinda depends. If I’m feeling particularly sadistic and the whole point is to cause pain, then punk or rock something in that general nature. But if I’m just being a tease or edging him for a whi ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 4:34 pm • 9 Replies • 2900 Views

Collaring

To me a collar is a show of the relationship, it's a reminder that both have committed to the other in a way that's different from a wedding ring or something of that nature. It's a constant reminder ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 6:20 am • 16 Replies • 5057 Views

How did you choose your title?

I’m a bear... who likes twinks.

Sat Jul 04, 2020 11:00 pm • 26 Replies • 8419 Views

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

Kara that’sa good way to explain it.

Sat Jul 04, 2020 9:33 pm • 14 Replies • 7019 Views

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

So what you guys are talking about is what I would call a common sense override. Stuff like that off course use your common sense, especially emergencies. And for that reason, I would agree 100% all ...

Sat Jul 04, 2020 7:33 pm • 14 Replies • 7019 Views

What if he's not into BDSM?

As a thought in a different direction perhaps getting him to join here and talk to some of us might help?

Sat Jul 04, 2020 5:00 pm • 33 Replies • 9244 Views

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

Like with most things in this lifestyle, there’s the book definition and there’s the applied definition. By the book, TPE pretty much means complete control/surrender in which the Dom(me) has complet ...

Sat Jul 04, 2020 12:42 pm • 14 Replies • 7019 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

A priest, a minister, and a rabbit walk into a bar. The rabbit says “I think I’ma typo.”

Sat Jul 04, 2020 4:03 am • 477 Replies • 121932 Views