Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

Having come from way back BTI ( before the internet) I can honestly say the number of scammers is exploding year by year!

I have countless examples some laughable, some scary and some down right i ...

Wed Jan 04, 2023 10:33 pm • 23 Replies • 4070 Views

Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)

First of all huge congratulations for extricating yourself from the obviously toxic relationship!
And secondly well done you for seeking sound professional advice, from both inside the community and ...

Sun Oct 30, 2022 12:48 am • 9 Replies • 1724 Views

One month in and struggling

Not an unusual story by any means, but always remember REAL LIFE comes first!

As others have alluded to there are more red flags than a Russian victory parade !

I can only hope that you have h ...

Sat Sep 17, 2022 6:51 am • 16 Replies • 3620 Views

Seeking Advice: Sub Drop

This exactly and said much better then my bumbling.Yes. But that right there is a "drop" in itself. The dominant dropped the ball on the required aftercare from what I'm reading having been expressed ...

Thu May 12, 2022 7:56 pm • 18 Replies • 2240 Views

A take on a take..

On another site I frequent there have been a couple of guys such as yourself in the uk , I knew some of the subs they played with and they were pretty appreciative of the juxtaposition !

As always ...

Tue May 03, 2022 2:21 am • 10 Replies • 1427 Views

Sub responsibility doesn't exist on this site it seems.

Just a word of advice if I may be so bold, once you’ve dug a hole this deep , stop digging !
I’ve learned this through experiences over the years !

Any popcorn left ?

Tue Mar 08, 2022 2:26 am • 62 Replies • 9163 Views

Punishment- What are the ABCs and 123s?

In RL my thoughts are that the punishments should be administered at the start of a play scene , it distracts the sub if they spend the meet waiting for the earned punishment!

This sounds like ...

Thu Mar 03, 2022 10:49 pm • 14 Replies • 3321 Views

Punishment- What are the ABCs and 123s?

Such an interesting topic and one that should be discussed and agreed during your opening negotiations into your proposed dynamic!

These are my thoughts others may agree or disagree we are all dif ...

Mon Feb 28, 2022 10:51 am • 14 Replies • 3321 Views

Women and men over 65

I’m not sure either intelligence or being wiser are at the root of it!
In my 20’s and 30’s I could go all night, but guess what ? that’s just called fucking
40’s and 50’s my mindset changed and all ...

Wed Feb 16, 2022 1:34 am • 20 Replies • 4681 Views

“I have a special set of skills”…

The ability to walk in when others are walking out!
Empathy , putting others needs before mine, and perhaps the most important, honest !

Mon Feb 07, 2022 7:51 am • 37 Replies • 8635 Views