Punishment- What are the ABCs and 123s?

In RL my thoughts are that the punishments should be administered at the start of a play scene , it distracts the sub if they spend the meet waiting for the earned punishment!

This sounds like ...

Thu Mar 03, 2022 10:49 pm • 14 Replies • 3353 Views

Punishment- What are the ABCs and 123s?

Such an interesting topic and one that should be discussed and agreed during your opening negotiations into your proposed dynamic!

These are my thoughts others may agree or disagree we are all dif ...

Mon Feb 28, 2022 10:51 am • 14 Replies • 3353 Views

Women and men over 65

I’m not sure either intelligence or being wiser are at the root of it!
In my 20’s and 30’s I could go all night, but guess what ? that’s just called fucking
40’s and 50’s my mindset changed and all ...

Wed Feb 16, 2022 1:34 am • 20 Replies • 4735 Views

“I have a special set of skills”…

The ability to walk in when others are walking out!
Empathy , putting others needs before mine, and perhaps the most important, honest !

Mon Feb 07, 2022 7:51 am • 37 Replies • 8749 Views

Is there something halfway between Dd/lg & D/s?

Every single relationship is bespoke, there is no book of rules, it is entirely up to you to craft your own relationship!
if you both approach the foundation steps of , chatting , discussions, set ...

Fri Jan 07, 2022 9:44 pm • 33 Replies • 8351 Views

Is this strange?

It does happen that Ddlg can be perceived as this but not normally!

If it works for you then just enjoy the moments as long as all parties remember SSC & RACK it should be fine !!

Fri Dec 31, 2021 5:02 pm • 18 Replies • 6044 Views

Me too

I love the Clan of the Cave Bear series.

Though some of the later books lacked the brilliance of the first three !

Wed Dec 29, 2021 8:56 am • 92 Replies • 24559 Views

Non-sexual traits or things that turn you off

Bad grammar
Bad manners
Bad attitude
Arrogance
Body odour
Ignorance
Condescension
Fakes
Scammers

Wed Jun 16, 2021 3:44 pm • 47 Replies • 10614 Views

Judgemental people

People tend to judge what they fear whether that be people or acts !!

The more people learn and accept other people’s ideals and reasons for being how they are the less judgemental they become!!
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Wed Jun 02, 2021 11:50 pm • 55 Replies • 13561 Views

Safe spaces for possible littles and Doms/ Caregivers

Asking questions is the only way any of us learn, as they say the only stupid question is the one you don’t ask!

Tue May 25, 2021 11:56 am • 8 Replies • 2971 Views