What do you think of this & porn in general?

What do you think of this & porn in general?

UnleashedChaos​(sub female) • Aug 15, 2022

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/woafzy/what_very_common_thing_in_porn_do_you_find/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
*Posted by u/TheDoc3pu*

Discussion on Reddit about the things people tend to find horrible/gross/a turn off etc. Main things seemed to be a lot of the stuff we, as kinksters enjoy.

Now obviously, being kinksters, that's what sets us apart from 'vanillas'. But do you agree with some of the comments? Do you think porn portrays abuse of women these days, for example?

Any other comments? Just interested in the views ☺️

Knightsundere​(sub male) • Aug 15, 2022

The ones I saw referring to abuse and such are... idk, they seem to be talking more about abuse of the porn actress rather than abuse as a kink. There's a comment about James Deen being an asshole, comment about girls clearly crying in pain/discomfort (in presumably non-kink videos?) and some other stuff like that. That all seems reasonable to me as being unfortunate.

But yeah I do think porn portrays things poorly. Dudes that aren't interested in the nuances of BDSM pick up ideas from vaguely bdsm-oriented videos and then apply those things in real life assuming it's what girls are expecting. That's always been an issue with porn though, no? False expectations?

UnleashedChaos​(sub female) • Aug 15, 2022

@Knightsundere Absolutely. I think it does give the wrong impression for sure. And most people know it isn't meant to portray 'real life'. However, what my thoughts were going towards were younger adults, viewing it and potentially thinking this is how it be. That *all* women want this, all people should want *x, y and z*...because this is the sex lol

There are documented cases of models/actresses being severely abused in the sex industry - it's pretty common knowledge. And yet, it still happens, which is disgusting. This I think is the far more disturbing thing about porn than anything else.

Also, going through the comments, many replies were:
'spitting - gross' me: it's on my yes please list, ok I'm gross!
'fisting - wtf, gross' me: ok, chaos, gross again!
So it just shows how we *seem* to be worlds apart from the vanilla peeps. Jeez, I'm never going back. I'd rather be celibate...

I'mME • Aug 16, 2022

The comment about the long nails reasonated with me, germs, yucky yucky.

As far as porn in general, I love different kinds of porn. It's porn though, it's not reality, they don't show what the ladies do behind the scenes to get ready to have a 10 inch cock in the wazoo.

People confuse entertainment for real life. Although I am not sure the porn is the "problem" if they confuse that two.

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} • Aug 17, 2022

BINGO! That fact porn is entertainment is overlooked way to much!

bodice ripping • Oct 7, 2022

Porn lies.

I think porn has skewed what people expect when getting into bdsm. Enjoying bdsm is gradual growth. Efukt has a series of “bad boyfriends” videos of dudes videoing themselves abusing the hell out of their girlfriends and thinking they should like it. Stars like Rocco Siffredi are seasoned pros and porn starlets film with them to increase their exposure. The girls know what they’re signing on for. Inexperienced 20 something dudes should not be doing the same things to their equally inexperienced 20 something girlfriends.

Estaria​(sub female) • Oct 7, 2022

Just wanted to say I love all of this, I agree with mostly everything said. I wish more people gave these things more thought like you all.

Facts: if people confuse porn with reality then it's probably the person that's the issue. Yes, 100%.

Secret Mind​(dom male) • Oct 8, 2022

I recently watched a documentary on kink and porn. I highly recommend it to everyone. It's called "Kink" and came out in 2013. We've all seen their videos before.
It's eye-opening and interesting. Especially the ending where a woman is asked a question and she goes silent on it.

I don't think porn should exist anymore. As it's grown worse over time. More violent and more abusive. Women aren't getting rich from it either. Slapped, degraded, and spit on, just for $100.
There's a famous fetish porn company that takes advantage of women who are desperate for money. They beat the living hell out of them. Then when the woman begs them to stop, someone walks over and offers her twice the amount of money to keep going. They're somewhere in the UK.

There's a lot of manipulation and abuse within porn. Plus underage and human trafficking. That's why I quit watching it years ago.

For my kinks and what I like. I don't care if someone else thinks they're gross. There are limits for a reason. What you like might not be what I like, and what I like might not be something that you like.

Dom Pinnacle​(dom male) • Oct 8, 2022

Double penetration porn was always gross to me. More than one cock in a scene and I'm out. LoL Bukkake was and always will be trash. Amazing that women allowed those scenes to be filmed.

I'm all about vanilla porn. Or a guy and several women. Caught a few orgy vids that were cool, back in the day.

I don't watch porn like I used to. But when I do it's usually a solo woman masturbation scene. Something so beautiful about a woman that can please herself. Not that I can't. Don't get it twisted LMAO.

But yes, there's abuse in porn just like every other facet of life on this planet.

LatexHer​(dom male) • Oct 8, 2022

Porn - is often misrepresented with the abuse of either sex or partners. The word "PORN" covers a tremendous diversity of human expression.
Most of us when we hear the word PORN - what comes to mind is people having sexual intercourse of sorts, oral, anal vaginal, but not limited to women or men. ABUSE, snuff films, and contact with Animals or Children IS NOT PORN.
Now interject Domination, submission, torments, and even physical or mental torture, but it's still under the guise of porn. Men and women both can enjoy domination, submission, degradation, objectification, and even sadism, and we do!

When we further subpart the word PORN to other levels as with Fetish play, we then enter a separate category. Fetish play can encompass medical play as urethra sounding, vaginal dilations, and even breast and pussy inflation. Subpartition Fetish plays even further and we can find enemas, diaper-wearing, age regression, and fecal matter. Subparted yet further and we have fetishists who enjoy leather, rubber, PVC, Neoprene, Vinyl, and spandex, often finding themselves also enjoying tight clothing, CORSETS, and sweating, along with rope, harness, chains, and steel. Combine any or all of the above with indoor, outdoor, dungeon, studios, even boats, and ship props, and even with all combinations we still categorize these as PORN.

Somewhere in the repertoire of PORN, we find stockings, heels, boots, bras girdles, silk, harnesses, Chastity belts, and sexual denial. Breaking it all down PORN covers a vast variety of things, often miscategorized, by many and myself, but it is all PORN!
WHAT IS YOUR own delight with porn?