gillesderais

sub male

In a monogamous relationship

I am a 51-year-old British man living in London. Full disclosure: I am unhappily married to a vanilla woman and have been for 12 years. I have a family. I'm here to have an outlet for my fantasies.

Now for the fun stuff: I love femdom, teasing, discipline. Women who are statuesque, leather-bound, cigarette-smoking and whip-weilding.
Ok, that makes me sound very superficial! I'm also very interested in Goddess worship and magical practice. A devotee of Ishtar. I'm very interested in the interplay of sexuality and spirituality in submission, on all it's levels.
Coming from a Christian background, I have always felt a lot of shame and guilt about this part of myself but I am working to overcome it and embrace my sexuality as a precious gift from the Goddess.
If you want to know more my thoughts and fantasies are crystallised better on my blog.
INTP.

It has taken me so long to admit that I'm interested in femdom, but hey, here I am!

Nothing violent or illegal

Me being honest

Feb 23, 2023

Dec 14, 2022