Kitten15

sub female

39

Single

Hello, I’m new-ish to submission but very eager and willing to learn from the right person. I tend to be shy at first until I get to know you. I am looking for someone to help me explore new heights, push me to places I didn’t know existed and play out the fantasies that live only in my dreams. Through this journey I have been told I’m not “Sub enough” so many times that I left this site and questioned myself. I did some reading and found something that really spoke to me. I will say that my kind is not for everyone. I believe it takes the right kind of Dom to accept it and embrace it….I can be extremely sweet or your worst enemy, I am extremely loyal if you deserve it, I can be bratty but only because I want your attention, I am very independent but reliant....I can take care of myself but like to be cared for.
My friends tend to say I am overall a “picky” girl  however, I prefer to think of it as merely knowing what I want and need. If you wish to know any thing else please ask.
This is what I read that really spoke to me….if you are interested please give it a read. 

https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/self-understanding/alpha-submissives/

I am newish to submission..... real submission anyway.  Of course I have had rough sex, had my hair pulled, been spanked etc......but let’s be honest if kinky sex was all I wanted I wouldn’t be here.
I would love to find someone I can trust so deeply that I can allow myself to fully and completely let go. To willingly want to give that person complete control to open my body and mind to its deepest vulnerabilities..... and know that he will ALWAYS have my best interests at heart. Someone that accepts me for me (flaws and all), someone that I feel completely safe and secure with and eventually someone that is worthy and capable of holding the title and responsibility of owning me......because that is a bond so pure and true it is almost impossible to replicate. 
I am looking for good conversation, good advice, training and guidance (eventually) from the right Dom (for me) Someone to take me out of my head.....my extremely loud, opinionated, over critical, over thinking everything head!!  Be the calm to my storm and chaos. Take me to a place where only you and I exist........even if only for a little while.

**IMPORTANT**
I have NO patience for ignorance or stupidity! if you aren’t serious about this or you are just looking for a girl to boss around and have rough sex with, keep searching....I am NOT that girl! If you did not take the time to fill out your profile....please don’t waste my time by sending me a message leaving me with nothing but the words “Hi” or “Wanna Chat”....first impressions are everything...an empty profile is highly disappointing ....this is not a game to me.

I have limits- respect them, they may change in time or they may not. Just because I may be into something doesn’t mean I will do it with you.

Hard Limits- no blood, scat, pee, fisting, minors, permanent marks, extreme pain, hard whipping, slapping, squeezing or extreme bondage of chest.

Those are the major ones at this time.  There may be more that are currently undiscovered ... but that can all be discussed at a later time.

What can I say....I had to take the test! This should give you a little insight on compatibility....

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Submissive
97% Rope bunny
92% Brat
90% Voyeur
88% Boy/Girl
71% Degradee
54% Ageplayer
52% Experimentalist
47% Vanilla
44% Masochist
27% Slave
25% Exhibitionist
23% Primal (Prey)
19% Switch
14% Non-monogamist
8% Pet
http://bdsmtest.org/r/CbUUxFTG

Mar 21, 2023

Oct 20, 2018