In a monogamous relationship
I've been on this site for several years, and I enjoy the BDSM lifestyle. I'm always learning more, as we all should be. I respect my sub's boundaries and believe having a written contract between Dom and sub is important to clearly define the relationship and boundaries within it. The contract must be reevaluated regularly and adjusted as the desires of one or both Don and/or sub change. I am currently in a relationship but she has had a drastic drop in sex drive since menopause, and she is thinking about leaving the relationship. My current D/s relationship is limited to the bedroom, but ultimately I would like a 24/7 relationship with preferably a TPE. Nevertheless I'm open to negotiating specific times to meet if 24/7 is not your desire.
I'm a dom/master looking for a sub/slave. I'm into bondage, spanking, watersports, and much more. My hard limits are few as listed below.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
83% Primal (Hunter)
43% Brat tamer
20% Rope bunny
2% Primal (Prey)
No Scat play, blood, permanent marks, anything illegal.
I'm learning more day by day living the lifestyle as well as learning from this site and other sources. There are a lot of good forums and blogs out there. I am always looking to improve upon my role as Dom.