Sir Richard

dom male

56

In a monogamous relationship

Due to my professional reputation, I will no longer post any photos of myself on this open site. Once I have ruled you out as being being one of my patients or family members of my patients. I will happily provide photos as requested. For the same reason, I use a pseudonym until I know you are serious and wanting to engage in a serious relationship with me.

I've been on this site for several years, and I enjoy the BDSM lifestyle. I'm always learning more, as we all should be. I respect my sub's boundaries and believe having a written contract between Dom and sub is important to clearly define the relationship and boundaries within it. The contract must be reevaluated regularly and adjusted as the desires of one or both Dom and/or sub change. I am martied and i love my wife dearly. We used to frequently engage in bdsm activitues in the bedroom but she entered early menopause and her sex drive dropped significantly. Over time it improved, but her comfort and desire for bdsm activities never returned and are now minimal. She reports anxiety regarding any bondage, but cannot explain why since she used to beg to be restrained. My previous D/s relationships have all been limited to the bedroom or online, but ultimately I would like a 24/7 relationship with preferably a TPE. Now however, I do not wish to leave my wife, as we have both recommitted ourselves to our marriage. She is considering consenting to me to take an online sub.

I'm a dom/master looking for a sub/slave. I would like to have a DD/lg relationship but have not hade the opportunity as of yet. I'm into bondage, spanking, watersports, and much more. My hard limits are few as listed below.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Daddy/Mommy
97% Master/Mistress
94% Owner
93% Dominant
87% Rigger
83% Primal (Hunter)
67% Voyeur
67% Exhibitionist
58% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
50% Degrader
46% Ageplayer
43% Brat tamer
25% Switch
20% Rope bunny
16% Submissive
16% Non-monogamist
2% Pet
2% Primal (Prey)
1% Masochist
1% Brat
1% Vanilla
1% Boy/Girl
0% Slave
0% Degradee

No Scat play, blood, permanent marks, anything illegal.

I'm learning more day by day living the lifestyle as well as learning from this site and other sources. There are a lot of good forums and blogs out there. I am always looking to improve upon my role as Dom.

Feb 4, 2020