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2 years ago. September 5, 2022 at 11:30 PM

So a concerned blog reader was like well maybe there could be some toys that help enhance things solo.

I am not really sure some of the stuff solo doesn't really help whip hand cuffs candles. What am I gonna do handcuff myself and pour wax on me doesn't really work.

So technically I have a couple of vibrators a few dildos and thats about it.

I have debated for a while getting a vibrating or thrusting type dildo but part of my issue is I wanna get less interested in vaginal sex not more so.

People evolve and to an extent I'm getting used to the new normal. I was always a late bloomer but its also kept my body young and relatively fit so I guess its better to age slowly with health then the alternative.

So please list what you think a switch woman exploring solo needs. Since I am curious what you might suggest.

Thanks for taking the time much appreciated.

CallMe Sir(dom male) - I’m not quite sure about the toy aspect, but if it’s a sensory thing have you tried blindfolds or the like? And if you’re trying to move away from vaginal stimulation have you tried ice on parts of your body. Or if you’re looking for more extreme, maybe electric stimulation? Or perhaps less so with feathers. If you’re looking for something with a little more force there’s always clamps of different strengths.

2 years ago

Sir Wolfe(dom male) - Okay I'm willing to help you out. I will come over I will pour wax on your nipples and your labia okay? I'm willing to do this for you! 😉

2 years ago

B L O N D I E(sub female) - What about lingerie? It could evoke dominant or submissive tendencies and could help you get in the mood even if you're alone.

2 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Main problem there is I'm in the process of losing alot of weight anything that might fit me now might not by the end of the year. Although I did throw out pretty much all my period panties and replaced them with more fun stuff.

Personally the think I like is the senation of some that are especially silky or knitted with lace in ways that stim.

Personally I like being naked so clothes aren't as big a turn on for me as many.

Thanks for addressing it any more ideas?

2 years ago

Moonlighter(dom male) - I'm going to be slightly cheeky here and say "a box to put it all in".

But seriously CallMe Sir and HisCora both have good suggestions.

Depending how comfortable you are you can put yourself in predicament bondage but please for the love of spoons ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS have a get out plan and a backup to go with it!

2 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Huh what do you mean by this I kinda can't bondage myself back when I was active in the lifestyle I jad different sorts of cuffs, chains, rope, lace exctera but you kinda can't do it to yourself I mean even if i cuffed myself to a table I would also have to have the key or my picking tools within reach and then how would that add to the sexy.

2 years ago

Zedland(dom male) - You could get timed locks. A pair of them of course in case one fails.

2 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Timed locks for myself? Confused

2 years ago

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