After care
This is something we all need and deserve. Even a D needs this. The emotions and adrenaline are so high during a session both need to take care after hece the name.
That isnt what this is about. After care is so much more and used in so many other times. Like for me right mow the after care fron changing my status is something I need.
LL is still mine my heart wont ever let go, I will wait and guide him home. Now home is where ever the heart is so sometimes you have to let go and encourage them in order to find their home. (If that makes sense I'm rambling through tears)
LL and I check on eachother multiple times a day because this choice wasnt easy for us. I ask the hard questions and make him think he tries to remind me to breathe. We are supporting eachother we are helping eachother (I dont know about me I'm off and my thoughts are everywhere) we are trying to keep the other cared for.
I hope you see my point D/s is a deep deep thing. When there is a bump in the relationship it's so important to keep checking on eachother. If there is a bad split then as a community we need to make sure those people are okay. We provide the after care.
Love eachother hug eachother and be thankful for every moment
Now I'm off to cuddle with my blanket ( yes my jack skellington) and let my tears fall more eventually they will stop or I'll be hooked up to another iv bag....
No matter what path you take, what journey or adventure you go on I will leave the candle burning in the window, I will shine the green light from my porch and my heart will call to you. You will always be able to find your way to me.
As promised always yours
J