I am the most independent person you will meet. I am extremely introverted, I am a nerd for science and math, and I love philosophy. Wrong does not exist in my world and I would consider myself an 11/10, a Unicorn if you will... though not the kink unicorn we come across here.
*Breath* OKAY! Self glorification out of the way, now that people who don't want to read this have feverishly hit the back space button and are gone. On with the Topic!
Why do you Discredit the Experts?
Why don't we give experts credit? Exactly like my first paragraph denotes, why do I have to think I am special? Where did this come from? When did the mentality of disregarding "classifications" become the hip (are the people still saying that?) thing to do? There is so much pushback on being "labelled" Where only through denying where you might land classificationally, do you fine value.
I am swarmed with terminology... I thought Math was rough. Between "amarous", "Pet", "Demi-sexual" "Sapio-sexual" "Bisexual" "Gentleman" "Daddy" all different and ever expanding ways to classify our preferences. Yet people seem to practice avoidance with "stereotypes" let's call them that, it saves me from having to write a transition paragraph.
These things aren't meant to lock you down, make you act a certain way. You still get to be you, when you are wearing your favorite shoes, a dress, that adorable hair clip. That is fashion babay! Same with these things. They are created to allow you to be exactly who you want to be. Why are we all being that child that turns up their nose to the mushed, "pre-chewed" peas like we need something better?
We need to give more credence to the Masters that created these things. That LIVED them, and felt passionate enough about them to inflect on them, to write them down and pass them along, so that maybe the rest of us wouldn't have to be in the dark stone age trying to figure it out for ourselves, so we could reap the benefits sooner.
Be the Submissive>Alpha>Pet>Primal>Toy>Slave you were meant to be! but don't go denying all of this amazing information to you subconscious because you need to be a piece of paper folded exactly 8 times then cut in fancy geometric directions. (Get it? 😆) there is so much insight and internalizing and self exploration done by those before you, take what they have to say to heart. Elaborate on it if you must, that is how we get further clarity, but don't outright deny that you are a making of things that already exists in this world, that always have. Just maybe the world wasn't ready to accept them for whatever socioeconomic or political reason.
We live in an amazing time, it could be better. An amazing place, some could be better. But we are getting there and are further than we have ever been. We absolutely did not get here by digging our heels in and refusing to admit what we are, or who those around us are or get to be... so why are we doing that to ourselves?
You prevent growth when you deny what already exists around you.
Also... unrelated. I fear I may have alienated some people around here trying to start debates, or just through ignorance. So to those people, I am sorry. It was never my intent, but I fear may have been what I caused. will stay away from the forums for a while and go back to the experts and observing, instead of offending people with my questions and aggressive misunderstandings.
Thank you for allowing me to be here.
~Oracle
