I woke up this morning feeling pretty alright, my inner brat was still too groggy to cause chaos, my mood was decent for a Saturday morning, I wasn't even that bothered by the fact that I have a loooooooooooong shift ahead today.
But of course things had to change, and that's why I'm writing this blog so take a seat, buckle up because we're going for a ride.
So as you might see I'm a switch right? I made sure to pick that role myself, it's not a mistake, I picked it because it is what I am. Of course if you read my profile you'll see that I tend to fall into a submissive/brat role more often, but that doesn't mean I'm a full on submissive.
Now judging by the amount of shitty messages I get I think many doms keep ignoring that fact so I feel the need to address this topic, so let's open this can of worms shall we?
But first let me explain why am I this pissed first thing in the morning.
One of those InstaDoms decided to slide into my dms, telling me he enjoyed my profile but he would never submit to me (mind you I never asked him to) but he would ALLOW me (what a kind soul) to have a submissive myself. When I told him I wasn't interested he replied with something like "you're right but this is why I will win" and proceeded to send me a dick pic, because we all know cocks are the only thing that can turn a switch into a submissive -.-"
Anyway back to the point in question.
To me (and me only, I'm not speaking for any other switches) what does it mean to be a switch?
It means that I can fall into both roles and it tends to swing more often when I'm single.
However things work a bit different when I'm in a dynamic, if my partner is a Dom I will offer them my submission, and if they are a Sub I will take a Dominant stance, if I'm with another switch anything goes.
But for any of that to happen I need to connect and "click" with someone, we need to discuss the roles and most of all if they want my submission they need to understand I will always be a brat, a loyal brat but a brat nevertheless, so I am a handful.
So for the love of whatever deity you believe in, stop assuming stuff about me and stop sending unsolicited dick pics
