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Random thoughts, some insight into my crazy thoughts, how I see life that kind of shit. I am that girl that everyone tells "your so great" who wants to stay friends with but doesn't actually want to put the effort in for. Story of my life.
3 years ago. December 5, 2020 at 5:24 AM

I am starting to get fed up with this issue.  When you reach out to someone just bc it says they are online does not mean you automatically deserve a response immediately!

 

I was out running errands today, my account showed I was still logged in.  However, I was not answering any new messages.  Not having the time to really pay attention to what is being written nor the time to form a proper response I just simply left them for when I could give each message the proper time and attention.  Well, that apparently is a big deal to some people, I received messages full of these people letting me know apparently my own thoughts before I did.  Not to mention telling me how disrespectful I was towards the sender simply bc I did not answer.   Not only that but how it was rude not to have responded within an hour, bc it showed me online.  

 

Let me be clear, I do not owe anyone anything.  Just bc you send someone a message does not entitle you to a response.    It is also up to them when or if they respond at all.  You do not know what is going on with that person.  It is my choice to communicate or not, that message does not require me to do a damn thing.  Do not come at me bc you did not get a response in whatever timeframe you decided was acceptable.  I have had about enough of this honestly.  

 

This was such a recurring theme today.  

dirmn​(dom male) - Well said.
3 years ago
LadyJane - Exactly, I have had the same issues
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Yup....and if they have a problem with it, that's on them, not you.
3 years ago
Smooth Wolf - Unfortunately some people do not realise that everyday life goes on as normal.
3 years ago
Ingénue{VK} - My sympathies. I rather like ignoring these Dom-types as they get all rage stained and flushed, stabbing away at their keyboards, wanting their wankfodder *now*! One very skilled non-Dom kept bleating for replies 'in a timely manner'. Like a precious little sheep deprived of his sweet, sweet grass. I'd pat the fleece to comfort it, but it's smeared in shitty self-delusion.
3 years ago
HeyLittleOne​(sub female) - Thank you for saying it! Hopefully those types of people will see this and realize how truly unattractive it is.

I'm constantly dealing with crude and pushy people myself, that don't take no (or no reply) for an answer. I don't know why they think that acting that way towards a stranger will garner their attention; it only incites aggravation.

"I've clearly stated that I'm not interested, but because you showed me that you really cared by pestering me with crude messages, I'll give in and be your slave!"

Sigh 🙄
3 years ago
HeyLittleOne​(sub female) - Sidenote: your hair and eyes are absolutely beautiful!! They compliment each other perfectly!
3 years ago
warriorqueen​(sub female) - Thank you very much! I am so tired of these kind of people! It was a theme yesterday.
3 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - I’ve pointed that behaviour out to those who chose to respond unflatteringly to me or who I’ve received MULTIPLE messages from clearly indicating that they’re just spamming inboxes. To me behaviour like that just tells me that you can’t be an adult and a proper Dom from the get go so *bye felicia*
3 years ago
amalthea​(sub female) - They lack etiquette and class
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Well said. I show I am on here ALL the time, and I am not, but I do not nor will engage or explain that to anyone who questions it.

Also, for me... NO RESPONSE IS A RESPONSE.

I hate to say great blog post, because it's sad that it even has to be written, and with that, it must be said.

Much peace to you. 🌸💞🌸
3 years ago
warriorqueen​(sub female) - Thank you, I agree 100$
3 years ago
Hammermon777​(dom male) - They just weed themselves out saves you time, if they have no patience and can’t be decent they don’t deserve a reply!!!
3 years ago

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