Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

  South Carolina

Looking for a master to verbally get him off.

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  Dublin, County Dublin

Hello there and than you for reading my profile. I am an extremely compliant sub and looking for my Sir. I am a professional woman in my 40's and I live in Dublin. I am not interested in online. I need a real Master who has class and intelligence. Thank you for reading.

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35 y/o      Norfolk, Virginia

Not your usual dating ad on a kink site.

Don't get me wrong. I am kinky, but currently I'm at a place in my life where I'm not looking for a casual situation. I am poly, seeking a long-term relationship/primary partner, and nothing less.

Me in one word: nature. I am very eco-friendly and love doing outdoorsy things like hiking!
I like to stay active. I workout during the week and am currently learning pole dancing.
I also love cooking (and eating). I eat vegetarian frequently, but may be closer to a flexitarian.
I like to get out and do things in general whether that's taking in a secluded trail, an art exhibit, traveling, you name it. Life is made of experiences!

Politics: Liberal
Love Language: Quality Time
Myers-Briggs: INTJ

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22 y/o      Virginia

I am new to this but am looking to be trained by the right dom who will let me explore my fantasies and please them.

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  Lancaster, England

I am in the uk, lancaster to be precise. I am looking for a dominant man. I don't want anything online.
For what I want: I am into domination but not degradation. I want to be fucked like a slut, but treated like a queen. I am very feminine and I want someone in their masculine energy. I want it to extend beyond sex, I don't like men who share. He has to be very very territorial about me. Wouldn't let another man lay eyes on me. Go to any length to protect me. Love me very very deeply. And be monogamous. Would like other men seeing my skin.
What I offer: complete submission.
You decide everything from what I wear, to who I talk to and who I meet.
Apart from degradation, initially anal, and pain. I would go to any length to satisfy you.
I would listen to you and do as you say as long as it doesn't involve money, my family or my career.
I would be faithful under all circumstances.
I would love you like no woman would.
You would basically own me till you love me.

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  Toronto, Ontario

I am looking to become a live-in submissive. I would love to be trained and moulded to be your perfect sub. I am looking for an LTR based in respect and trust.

I am an artist with a knack from service and care. I love to submit for the pleasure of offering myself fully to my Dom. I am a submissive first and kinky second. I

I am not sure what else you’d like to know about me here but I am open to anything, ask away.

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  Morocco

I’m a little, 19 year old sub female who’s looking for a religious muslim daddy

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53 y/o      Florida

Every aspect of my life is making decisions, I need sometimes to just not be able to, sometimes to not be the dominant one, I have very limited time but need some stress relief, in sw Florida

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  Pennsylvania

20 year old brat female looking for a man to put me in place but also be romantic

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27 y/o      Nevada

I wanna know what your taboo fantasies are I have many of my own but tend to scare off lots of people with them I wanna know if u have some too the messed up kind that u don’t want other people to know turn you on

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  United States

I’m seeking a Dom/master who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished and restrained. I’m prefer online however I travel for work to numerous states and if you are in my area that’s a huge plus. Any other questions feel free to message me!

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  Illinois

I’m a 21y/o f chocolate skinned and looking for a dom. I’ma be blunt I’m not very experienced in this field but so willing to learn I’m into creating deep connections w others and the dom/sun relation I’m looking for is something along those lines I want to have fun of course but this is meaningful for me I want to be able to experience all the kinks out there and learn what really moves me with someone I can genuinely trust I was a dom I can fully allow to control and own me but I have to trust you first!

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  Atlanta, Georgia

Hi, I'm a trans female sub, years on hormones... looking for a dom with interest in theatrical and brutally creative bondage and domination for a lifestyle dedicated to expressing ourselves through kink. I want to be a captive slave, obviously there are practical elements that need to be navigated but... you know. I like latex, rope, needles, impact, humiliation, exhibitionism and protocol and I have at least some experience in all of them.
I want to be clear, I'm looking for someone with enthusiasm for BDSM and a desire to do things right. You can't be a good dom if you aren't humble enough to learn, and I'm not interested in repressed people who are gonna get all hot and bothered by the idea but don't have the knowledge nor situation to do full time slavery. I'm interested in eventually getting to a full time BDSM Lifestyle. But obviously that needs to be felt out.
Local to Atlanta area, hoping to find someone within a few hours driving distance because super long distance sucks.

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  Atlanta, Georgia

I'm a somewhat experienced slave looking for a creative and deeply sadistic dom looking for captivity and objectification scene or hopefully eventually lifestyle. Located in Atlanta area. Into needles, watersports, cages, canes, rubber, pup play, taboo roleplay.

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  Tennessee

Hi I’m sunnyshine. I’m a little/sub and I’m looking

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23 y/o      England

Hi there, as it states I'm new to the scene. I've been researching the bdsm community for quite some time now but have never been bold enough to actually do anything. Anyways not only am I looking to talk to some Doms and get first hand experiences and advice (knowledge is power people), I'm also want to make friends hopefully with a few subs.
I'm not looking for anything permanent since I'm not in the right state of mind atm however I am in that experiment stage and am curious to find out a lot about this community and try a lot of things.
I've read however about these Doms that spam accounts often with owned/ collared subs or are just straight up invasive. Not cool at all, this community functions on trust, respect and rules. If you just want someone to straight up control without getting to know the person and establishing boundaries then you're no dom and I will give you sass if I see you in my dms. Other than that I'm really excited for this experience and can't wait ;)

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  Las Vegas, Nevada

Hi kinksters ;)

Let’s try a new personal for the new year!

About me:
• I hover quite in the middle in terms of submission; sometimes I want to be a complete brat, but I also want to be a good princess half the time
• Currently ~210lbs, active lifestyle and healthy diet for weight loss
• Majorly into asphyxiation and degradation, would really love to try dp some day

Looking for:
• Dom MEN ages 23 through 39
• Men who are physically fit
• Want an IN PERSON arrangement; full disclosure, I cannot afford travel and don’t have my own place (living at home). So I need someone who’s willing to at least split a hotel room now & then
• Looking for a best friend, with incredible dom energy in the bedroom but very respectful and “traditional” relationships publically

Please be patient, I’ve been internet-burned too much :(

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  London, England

Looking for the right guy to draw out my submission. Most men I meet are underwhelming and predictable. Prove me wrong? Into a whole host of things but more than anything dirty talk and vocal commands, wax-play and spanking. Looking for online at the moment, with the possibility of in person if we really hit it off. Only into the dynamics in bed and anywhere sex-adjacent, otherwise you and I would just enjoy each others company and maybe have some likes in common. 25-30yo men only please.

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  Pensacola, Florida

Hi there. Sorry if this comes across awkward. I’m quite shy until I get comfortable.
I’m not sure *exactly* what I need, so I’m hoping to explore and find out.
I have tried traditional dating and it just doesn’t seem to fit me.
My best long term relationship was when I was allowed to be my submissive self, but there was no maturity in the relationship and life changes happened. A lot can happen in three years and preferences and life styles can unfortunately change.
I am intrigued with the idea of having someone who is invested in helping me achieve my goals and still provide what I do crave.
I am a very passive person. I am a people pleaser. I love making others happy.
Ideally I would love a daddy-type, but I am open to exploring options to find what suits me best.

Thank you so much for reading. :)

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  United States

Own me use me fuck me all day at anytime anywhere

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35 y/o      Colombia

Sub looking for an online Dom who loves edging me and making me beg. I enjoy long sessions over snap where my Dom tells me how I should touch myself, which toys I use, and most importantly, when I get to cum. Forced orgasms after a long edging session are something I enjoy until I have to beg my Dom to stop once it gets to be too much. Dirty talk is a huge turn on for me. But more than anything, I love hearing and seeing the effect all of this has on my Dom, there's nothing better than hearing him cum from doing all of that to me.

Biggest issue I've had has been finding someone I can trust and knows how to get in my head, time everything according to my reactions and just take over. Ideally, I'd want to build some trust by having a few phone calls and seeing if there's real chemistry between us. Pics, Skype and videos could come after that.

I'd want someone who isn't sneaking around and is free to talk.

Message me if you feel like playing and seeing if we could work out xx

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  Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania

I am seeking a dominant male online. Someone in usa.

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  United States

Seeking strict Dominant
I enjoy the darker side
Of bdsm, forced, cnc, degradation, pain. Rules giving up complete control, not in a rush to relocate so starting online and moving to irl possibly. Message me if you think you are a fit.

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  New Jersey

I am looking for a discreet dom for hookups or long term encounters.
I am in my 40's, in a sexless marriage. I am a sub that wants to be dominated and disciplined and be told how to please you.
Message me and let's talk.

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27 y/o      New Jersey

Hi everyone!!! Looking for that special someone....what does that even mean?
For me, it means someone that is going to love me like I love them. My best friend. When life is hard, our love will make it easy. I just want to worship someone, make them feel like they are ontop of the world while I am sitting at their feet. Check out my profile and see if I'm your girl ?

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  United States

I am back searching for my perfect Daddy.

About me: 30, 5’4, size 6, 36C, curvy but in shape. No children. INFJ. Leo woman in every sense. I have a graduate degree in public policy and split my time between the west coast and DC (for work). I probably would be classified as an “alpha female”. Beautiful, successful, ambitious, and educated. And overall am very career-driven person who I’d working in a difficult industry.

I love wearing lingerie & enjoy dressing sexy. I also like being objectified. I consider myself a "barbie" kind of girl. My hair, makeup, and nails are always done. I’m put together. Lol I do enjoy being a spoiled princess but try not to be a brat. I’m passionate and nurturing. I love to take care of the person I am with, from cooking to cuddling and everything in between.

I am monogamous and am hope to develop something that is long-term. Eventually living together.

I need a firm but gentle hand. I’ll do whatever you ask, within reason. :)

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  Texas

I'm a 28 year old afab masochist who really wants to get involved with some older men. I like pain and I like being dominated but I also like being a little bratty and playful so I would want to be with someone who is okay with that. I'm definitely into impact play and am open to a lot of other things as well. Right now I think I'd like to get to know someone online for a little while first before deciding if I want to do anything in person.

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37 y/o      South Carolina

I am in my 30s and am looking for a connection. I don't get sexually aroused with small talk or fake facades. I am very blunt. I am looking for someone who is into control play most of all.

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27 y/o      Florida

I’m relatively new to the lifestyle and am interested in learning more from someone who is serious about their role as a dominant while also respecting my boundaries as a professional.

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35 y/o      Virginia

**Please see my profile and BDSM Checklist for additional background.**

I'm a black tomboyish bisexual woman (5'5", ~240lbs) who's into CNC play and currently looking to lose my virginity to a bigger, stronger daddy dom who can restrain me. If this person is willing, they could experiment with me long term. I would also prefer that this man be black or brown-skinned and muscular. I would say that my sub type is about 80% brat and 20% little. I would strongly prefer someone local to my area, but am open to possibly traveling to the Richmond or DMV metro areas.

I am rather shy and not very social. I mostly wear jeans, t-shirts/flannels and sneakers, so if you're looking for someone prissy, sorry but that's not me. :)

Before doing anything, I am willing to get tested and any potential partner must also do so. Condoms are a must. I would like to get to know each other a bit before things heat up. Message me if interested! ;)

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  Fort Worth, Texas

I haven't fully explored bdsm and I really want to try catering to this part of my life. I need someone who is patient and won't push me. I need someone who will start slow. Who will let me set limits as I learn them. Who will suggest new things to try.

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  Minneapolis, Minnesota

I am seeking someone strong and kind and honorable. Someone I can entrust myself to absolutely, my strong sides but especially my helpless side that needs to be loved and protected but also fucked senseless and spanked when I am bad! I want someone comfortable being adored and admired and who values my desire to please him. Connection with phone and videochats but eventually in person.

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  United States

Hi there,
My name is Sofia (20f) and I'm currently a student residing in California. I've always been a very shy, timid, and passive individual, as it feels very natural and comforting to look to someone for guidance, validation, and confirmation. I secretly harbor the desire to relinquish all control and submit to the will of a Dominant. It's quite arousing to fantasize about not just feeling safe and trusting while I'm in such a vulnerable state, but knowing that my innate tendency to submit gives my partner immense satisfaction. I have limited experience in regards to exploring BDSM; I enjoy spanking, bondage, verbal/explicit degradation, being physically marked (i.e., hickies, biting, and bruises) and being treated like your personal whore.

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  Toronto, Ontario

Hello,
I am looking for a Dominant man who understands that what I chose to give is precious and that I am as well. That is because when I give to a Dominant man, it is deep and meaningful. I have exhibitionist tendencies and like to go to BDSM events and be shown off. I am a very intelligent woman and can think up all kinds of 'games' to play in and outside of the bedroom. I do not do any online play at all, only real life for this submissive. Talk soon :)

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27 y/o      Wisconsin

To keep it short and sweet, I’m looking for a dom/master willing to take me as his sub. Pleasing is in my nature and I want to be able to be put to use. I’m 24, looking for any age. I am open to any type of relationship, and would love to hear from you!

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26 y/o      Melk, Lower Austria

Long time owned slaves, back to the market.
My former master introduced me to the darkest and most perverted places of the mind.
Now I am hooked.

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  Scotland

Looking for Daddies/Doms to play with me online and maybe even in person.

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  United States

Looking for a total control dominant man. 38 years old or older.

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  Vancouver, British Columbia

Come see me

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  Birmingham, Alabama

Looking for a Dom who is in Birmingham or within a couple hours drive. If local, I’d like to have someone who can host/meet up 3-4 times a week. If not local, we can have a long distance relationship with maybe weekly sessions where I can drive over. I’ve got a soft spot for intelligent, socially aware, nerds ?

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  England

I am now looking for an experienced dominant.

The will need to enjoy impact play, wax play and exploration inside my hard limits.

They must be no older than 50 and be in fit condition.
I am looking for that connection between a dominant and submissive.

Please read my profile, I am in an open relationship, and we love each other a lot, he is not kink minded and understands that this is something I need as well.

I can promise to always be honest with you, and I will tell it like it is.

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  Massachusetts

Looking to be your Doll, I am trans but will go all the way (or not) whatever you want. Build my body to your needs! In need of a Master to whip me into shape. I am constantly working on myself to improve my looks and figure. If I am someone you may want, get in touch ?

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  Missouri

Hello-
I am interested in a Dom to get to know in hopes of one day meeting IRL. I really like the mental aspect of the D/s relationship and like men that are sapiosexual. I am really turned on by kindness, intelligence and humor. I have more on my profile if you are interested in getting to know me more :)

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49 y/o      Pottstown, Pennsylvania

In need of a new Dom. That said, I'm not your regular sub. I'm a woman to be reckoned with. I have a very powerful personality. I'm very much the Head Bitch In Charge in many situations. I fight for myself and what I know is right, and I stand up for other people. I will not be treated as a doormat or a piece of furniture. But if I'm put in the right hands, and given the right treatment, I can be a very submissive kitten and a very, very good girl. Are you up for the challenge?

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  Manchester, England

Does this interest you – I am looking for a guy who would wrestle and win for me. I am the prize and this is the deal - you and John (my current sexual owner) have a one hour submissions by pin wrestle (he is untrained) Whoever, gains the most submissions in the hour is the winner. The winner then flexes, poses and punishes the loser. If you win, you either get a date with me, a night with me or you take me off him and even 'own' me - how does that sound ? Your age, weight, height ? We both work for airlines so travel is easy for us - we can get to you. {lease be aged 18 - 35 and under 15 stone or 200 lbs.

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37 y/o      Bradford, England

Dom needed to teach this naughty girl how to behave properly. Looking for West Yorkshire UK only please

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  Memphis, Tennessee

Plus size anal Queen looking for a discreet encounters maybe more I love anal and prefer anal only I love a Big Cock in my ass. Yes I’m married but my husband isn’t into my love of anal so I like to have fun on my own sometimes. I like a man that knows what he’s doing or a male that is willing and has the patience to learn how ticand can fuck this ass properly multiple times leaving a nice gape

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35 y/o      Commerce, Georgia

Hello everyone, im still a lil new to this. But most of what I know and what I believe about a Dom/sub relationship comes naturally. Im naturally submissive always have. I have some experience In doing assignments and have a schedule. I really enjoyed that part. Im eager to learn.

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  United States

Hey!! Please read my profile if you're looking for a new sub.. pls let me know that you've read it and we can discuss from there.. thank you (:

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  United Kingdom

Hey, I am a little from the UK. I am 28 little aged 2 to 3. I'm standing at 5'5ft, brown hair, blue eyes. I have been into ddlg for as long as I can remember to be honest. I’m obsessed with Disney. I’m looking for a dominant daddy who will take great care of me and love me unconditionally even when I act up.

I love stuffies, glitter, colouring, baking, animals, hello kitty, Disney tsum tsums, hatchimals, reading, movies, silly photos, making people laugh, dad jokes, sweets, pizza, painting, my little pony, video games, swimming, cuddle and cartoons and more.

As a little, I would say I am pretty soft, sensitive, clingy, playful, cute, adorable, and shy. I am kind of guided by my daddy in terms of how deep I can go into little space – I’m okay with bottles and pacifiers. I’m looking to explore more with the right person, maybe. Hehe. Big me, I'm attending university.

Favourite shows to name a few, big bang theory, family guy, American d

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  Zanesville, Ohio

I have a Master but long to have a Daddy to take care of my Little is needs. I miss the gentleness and nurturing only Daddies know how to give along with discipline because I also tend to be a Brat so.... Lots of love as well as a firm hand needed

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  England

New to the scene and learning. I have been a submissive now for 5 years. Looking for a Dom in 30's to re light that fire and show me limits Iv never reached before.

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  Chicago, Illinois

Sub seeking daddy
I am a 26-year-old female seeking a daddy. I am 5ft 2in, 120 lbs, brown hair, and eyes, petite and curvy. I am only interested in online dynamics.

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44 y/o      Alabama

42 yr old. Short and petite. Looking for a loving caretaker. Race doesn't matter. It's about loyalty and trust. DM so we can talk. I'm ready for a Daddy.

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38 y/o      New York, New York

I'm a tender loving, sensual, sexual, passionate woman. I am new to this world but have had some serious submissive & kinky tendencies I would love to actually explore, trying to do that with vanilla men i've dated hasn't been my cup of tea or theirs. I would love to jump into meeting people who understand my needs and wants and that can help me learn and grow and expand my sexuality - I would love some help and guidance teaching me the "ropes" <wink>, some of the things i'd like to try and explore I just know i need to find trust and feel safe - looking forward to playing with someone soon - I do require respect and some level of romance and consideration. That will help me feel comfortable and safe, so I can get ready to dive in and get dirty with you.

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41 y/o      New York

Hi,
I'm Diana, i'm 39 years old, i've been in and out of the lifestyle for 20 years, I identify as a submissive with "little" tendencies, i don't age regress. I don't little speak, and i'm not an ABDL. A bit about me, I am Colombian, BBW, size 22, 5'2, black hair, brown eyes, glasses, freckles (people often tell me to cosplay as Velma from Scooby Doo lol), I have big hips, a tummy, and a big butt. I'm also clingy, and needy and can be quite jealous (not going to hide this very real thing about me).
I'm very submissive but i have to be taken, meaning when i first meet someone i won't be submissive off the bat, i can have a strong dominant personality sometimes (depends on the person i am meeting as well). Have a commanding and dominant presence with me and i'm putty.

What i'm looking for: A SWM between the ages of 25-36, NOT poly, for a long term relationship leading to more, IRL. Can start online, but cannot stay online. Please read my profile for more info. Thank you.

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  Chicago, Illinois

Hello Gentlemen,
19F looking for a dom who’ll help me fully explore my sexual desires. I’m very much into discipline and degradation. Please within my area. I don’t do online. I’m a bit chubby. I hope that’s not a deterrent :)

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35 y/o      Alabama

Hi I'm feo looking for a dom/master. No online i don't find a thrill or anything doing it to my self much lol in my area please or close by

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  Canada

Anal lover, easy going, petite, tattoos, submissive, new, double penetration, 24/7, slave

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  Michigan

Hi, I'm Lyss and thank you for taking the time to read this. I have explored being a little before, however, I am wanting to go a bit deeper with someone and let myself explore freely. I like to let things flow naturally, so I am open to just a friend or someone who I could have a more full time dynamic with or just someone to play with. If you're interested in talking more, please do.

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