What's your dynamic

Not currently in a dynamic but my most fulfilling was close to 24/7 as was possible at that time Master / slave, monogamous relationship where our expectations aligned.

The aligning of expectation ...

Tue Sep 24, 2024 6:13 pm • 22 Replies • 4056 Views

Slave collars

It all depends on the s type and the dynamic.

There are too many variables to make a choice.

I realized this should have beenisted as an option after I posted this. Many will say it's dependent ...

Sun Sep 22, 2024 7:20 pm • 8 Replies • 1745 Views

Slave collars

Was wondering for those into ferich wear or collar and leash play what type of collar do you prefer if you have a preference? Solid steel, steel links, leather and steel hybrid, studded leather, all l ...

Sun Sep 22, 2024 5:29 pm • 8 Replies • 1745 Views

Why

A few of the millions of possibilities

She got back with her ex

She was about to be cheating with you and had second thoughts

She was about to be cheating with you and he found the email and ...

Wed Sep 18, 2024 6:41 am • 25 Replies • 4036 Views

How much should I Share on first contact?

Share only what you feel comfortable with sharing. If a Dom pressures you into sharing more than you comfortable with, that's a red flag for me

Wed Sep 11, 2024 5:22 pm • 22 Replies • 4820 Views

Honorifics

I generally refer to Doms as Sir in emails and in private DMs in the chat room but not in the lobby unless they have given me a reason to do so. That's me and if you think that it is not appropriate u ...

Mon Jul 29, 2024 3:10 am • 13 Replies • 2439 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

Interesting topic. From a male perspective, I find this extremely difficult to navigate. I feel sometimes a simple introduction seems appropriate. Like I would do if I were to approach an attractiv ...

Sun Jun 02, 2024 11:54 pm • 49 Replies • 10424 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

Low effort messages? The effort has been made by responding to you posting in “Find Friends” or “Seeking” post. I'll open with a “Hi, I'd enjoy chatting with you, Hows your day going.”. Why do you thi ...

Fri May 31, 2024 7:06 pm • 49 Replies • 10424 Views

Dominant Profile Names

If the name includes something that I am not into (daddy, sadist, puppy, ECT) , I wouldn't say that I am repulsed but it's a bad start to a conversation

Fri May 31, 2024 7:00 pm • 40 Replies • 5606 Views

Thoughts on the new Seeking feature?

Preferred the personals to this but not a big deal

Sun May 05, 2024 5:14 pm • 18 Replies • 8372 Views