Someone who doesn't claim to know everything.
Someone who is genuinely interested in learning about you.
Someone who is open about themselves and their life.
Someone who respects your choices when ...

Dominant is a personality trait, not a skill to be learned—no training is required. You don't need experience. You are either dominant or you are not. It is like being shy. No one teaches you that. Yo ...

So...a couple of things:

First, you need to ask yourself what you are getting from staying in this relationship and whether your needs are being met. If you are not getting the things you really wa ...

I am sorry this happened to you...but repeat after me:

We do not give money to anyone in return for sexual/kinky activity. EVER.

Unless you have a kink around being forced to give your money awa ...

I think there are a few things at play here.

First, as someone pointed out, there are men who pretend to want to submit just so they can get off. Certainly these men are not submissives.

Next, t ...

First and foremost, we are all people first. Any roles we assume are after that.

Therefore, I believe that there has to be some time when you are just people together--not DD/lg, not D/s, not M/s.. ...

I concur that everyone in this kind of relationship needs time to adjust, process, and learn. I would also note (kindly) that just because you want a particular thing doesn't mean that a Domme is goin ...

As several folks have pointed out, there are tons of podcasts (and some videos) that can help you to learn about a variety of topics and skills. I know I've watched some videos on basic rope bondage s ...

Here's an interesting read from Race Bannon--who a lot of people would easily identify as "Old Guard":

https://bannon.substack.com/p/the-old-guard-that-never-was-and

another take from him that i ...