Letting go/not holding grudges vs sweeping things important under the rug. What's the difference?

to start I'd say letting things go and hold a grudge aren't necessarily mutually exclusive processes. In some situations letting too much go will lead you to hold a grudge over the course of months or ...

Sat Oct 16, 2021 10:31 pm • 20 Replies • 4877 Views

Does Money Matter?

I think it's fairly dependant on the maturity and level of trust on both parties. It's easy to say that it shouldn't matter and that if it bothers them move on, but it's not always so easy. Someone I ...

Fri Jul 16, 2021 8:43 pm • 95 Replies • 39942 Views

Dom/me abuse?

I'm not sure if it was said already and I missed it but it can be a difficult position to be a top. Some one I used to be with had trouble with this kind of stuff. He expressed interest when I told hi ...

Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:00 pm • 12 Replies • 4351 Views

Obedience

[quote="ObsidianOx"]Obedience brings victory, and victory is life./quote]

I'd say that obedience actually brings cohesion within groups and that can lead to victory. that said, in unhealthy situati ...

Wed Jun 30, 2021 1:13 pm • 14 Replies • 4742 Views

Getting Physical

I do have a workout routine, right now mostly working my shoulder because of an injury, but I was trying to make working out a more common practice. Just an added reason to keep up with it. I've found ...

Tue Jun 29, 2021 8:48 pm • 7 Replies • 2408 Views

Everything subspace!

To zoom out one more level from what DrWakko said: There is no singular experience called "subspace" because different people use the word to refer to different kinds of experience. There are at least ...

Thu Jun 24, 2021 10:59 pm • 10 Replies • 4744 Views

Everything subspace!

I'll take a look at that especially since it's been a while since I've read anything about that, and I can't remember much about drop and aftercare. it's been pretty busy year.

Wed Jun 23, 2021 8:42 pm • 10 Replies • 4744 Views

Everything subspace!

so I'd say subspace is very different depending on how you get there. To start off I'd compare it to how Runner's high feels, which is the same mechanism just a very different situation. I've been in ...

Wed Jun 23, 2021 8:19 pm • 10 Replies • 4744 Views

Contradicting Desires?

I like the idea of a struggle for dominance and ultimately being forced into submission. At the same time I think I'd really like just being submissive. It's not something I've been able to experiment ...

Sat Jul 11, 2020 1:28 pm • 3 Replies • 2624 Views

Apologies

If you haven't done anything wrong you should not give an apology because it devalues the apology that you give when it is required.
If you're concern is that the apology is aimed at alleviating y ...

Mon Jul 06, 2020 7:05 pm • 30 Replies • 8186 Views