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Posts by Steellover(sub male)

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171

On losing a sub

I am sorry for your loss. I can't say that "I know how you feel" because I have never experienced a heartbreak after seven years like that. And it's only empty words anyway. I can only imagine the j ...

Sat May 04, 2024 3:47 am • 11 Replies • 6675 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

On losing a sub

172

Low effort messages from dudes

I don't generally send messages on here to people at all, unless it is something specific to either a blog or a forum post, and more often than not it is easier to just respond to the post in question ...

Thu May 02, 2024 2:39 am • 49 Replies • 13262 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Low effort messages from dudes

173

Word Play: ABCs of Kink

P is for pegging.

Bend me over, violate me, make me your fuck toy, push it in deeper, make me moan, make me your submissive little B$%^&*H

Sat Apr 27, 2024 7:30 am • 40 Replies • 12593 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Word Play: ABCs of Kink

174

Vanilla dating

I approach BDSM dating in the same way as I would approach vanilla dating: With a casual meet-up over coffee or drinks (if she's a drinker; some people I've dated are, shall we say, friends of Bill W ...

Mon Apr 22, 2024 3:12 am • 26 Replies • 6804 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Vanilla dating

175

Vanilla dating

Well, I've been pretty much resigned to the vanilla dating pool. Mostly because, over the years since I realized I was a kinky, submissive male, I have found that the options for any kind of mutually ...

Sun Apr 21, 2024 2:41 am • 26 Replies • 6804 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Vanilla dating

176

What do you like most about premium?

I am not a "Premium" member but the one bonus is the ability to spruce up your blog entries with pictures. I've been wanting to do so for a while. You can't post pics as a standard member.
(quick e ...

Thu Apr 18, 2024 3:43 am • 12 Replies • 7181 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Technical Support

Topic

What do you like most about premium?

177

Celebrity kink crush

Wonder Woman. She can lasso me any time of day.

Wed Apr 17, 2024 2:31 am • 23 Replies • 4977 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Celebrity kink crush

178

Form post not published?

I've seen them remove threads without explanation, and I've often wondered how they ran afoul of the forum guidelines.

Typically, if someone posts a personal ad (e.g. "I'm seeking a female dominant ...

Wed Apr 17, 2024 2:30 am • 2 Replies • 3407 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Technical Support

Topic

Form post not published?

179

Is mutual attraction necessary for you during CNC play? (thoughts on "forced" bisexuality

Yes, I would say (as a sub male) that my being attracted to my domme is a prerequisite for this kind of play.

So in the context of this topic, that being "forced bisexuality" play, I'm curious how ...

Wed Apr 10, 2024 2:40 am • 14 Replies • 3680 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Is mutual attraction necessary for you during CNC play? (thoughts on "forced" bisexuality

180

Multiple bad experiences

So, what I would advise, going forward is simply: Never send money to someone UNTIL you have met them face to face.

Now, to expand on that, it is not uncommon for professional dominants to want t ...

Tue Apr 09, 2024 2:47 am • 15 Replies • 6430 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Multiple bad experiences