Personals

While I never browsed the personals site here very much, I suspect your experience is pretty common, actually. On another, now defunct, kink dating site, I found the same thing- and I suspect it is th ...

Sun Mar 31, 2024 9:24 pm • 27 Replies • 6324 Views

Personals

I've never spent much time browsing the personals on here; I mainly use this site to interact through the forums and to write the occasional blog piece.
But it is a shame that this feature is gone. I ...

Fri Mar 22, 2024 5:09 am • 27 Replies • 6324 Views

Taking it or giving it in the ass

@steelover--- You lucked out, but luck only goes so far. Many Pro dommes are scammers, take your money and either come up with a busload of excuses or flat out vanish on you. Though you had a good ...

Thu Mar 21, 2024 3:24 am • 24 Replies • 5929 Views

Taking it or giving it in the ass

It's complicated for me because, while I'd love to be on the RECEIVING end of a strap-on from a hot domme (ha ha, aren't ALL domme's hot:) ?) it's kind of asking a lot of someone to be on the giving ...

Thu Mar 21, 2024 2:51 am • 24 Replies • 5929 Views

Pics of Dicks, Tits, Cunts, & Asses

It is considered rude and inappropriate, and even a bit creepy, for a guy to send a woman a penis pic (or other sexually charged pictures of himself) unless she expressly asks for it. Tasteful modeli ...

Thu Mar 14, 2024 2:53 am • 49 Replies • 10448 Views

Submissive Male Persona

What happens behind closed doors should be nobody's buisness but you and your partner. However, for me, if I were to go out in public, to my job, wearing a pink tutu and a spiked slave collar, there ...

Wed Mar 13, 2024 6:36 am • 15 Replies • 3521 Views

Submissive Male Persona

Many of my subs have been your traditional, masculine dominant males in their regular lives!

We have many archetypes of the "manly" submissive, like the majordomo or the knight errant. A man can se ...

Wed Mar 13, 2024 3:43 am • 15 Replies • 3521 Views

Do you block or have you been blocked?

Ive never had a reason to block anyone on this website, but then again, I don't get a lot of messages. If you message me I will usually write back; I can think of maybe one or two instances where I d ...

Tue Mar 12, 2024 3:27 am • 62 Replies • 12675 Views

Conversing between the sexes

I do worry a lot about judgement and shame, and yes, I have even encountered it on this site. I think for some people it is hard not to judge, if their kink activities are opposite of others. What t ...

Sat Mar 02, 2024 11:09 pm • 12 Replies • 3345 Views

Submissive verses Slave

It seems like there are different understandings and variations of the terms, and I suppose they mean different things to different people, but to me: Being a "slave" is less about kink/fetish/erotic ...

Sun Feb 25, 2024 11:04 pm • 53 Replies • 12797 Views