How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Steel implies strength but at the same time can also imply submission and bondage; put a steel collar on me, restrain me with steel shackles, lock a steel cock cage on me, and for the right woman, I'd ...

Thu Sep 23, 2021 2:37 am • 267 Replies • 95394 Views

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

There are different levels of submission. There are relationships where the dynamic exists both in and out of the bedroom, and to varying extents:

For example: 1) The dominant could call all the ...

Sat Sep 18, 2021 3:40 am • 18 Replies • 4394 Views

Help

Well as far as the "professional Help" advice, this shouldnt be taken as "You're Crazy." Rather, it may give you some insights to the choice you have: Remain with your partner who you obviously love ...

Sat Sep 18, 2021 3:26 am • 5 Replies • 1757 Views

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

My first relationship with a domme ended because she wanted it to evolve into a 24/7 type total power exchange right away, and I wasn't ready for that. She scared me off, in other words.

A potenti ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 6:39 am • 18 Replies • 4394 Views

Help

What was it that attracted you to her originally? You obviously love her and are obviously physically attracted to her. But sometimes accepting people for who they are, also means accepting them for ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 2:51 am • 5 Replies • 1757 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

I'd like to make a comment on the point that "Closeted Freak" made above, that the quickest way to scare off a woman was to appear too submissive.

While, to an extent people are hard wired, it is a ...

Wed Sep 08, 2021 5:20 am • 47 Replies • 16033 Views

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

Most of the time, I have found that trying to pursue someone who is not interested (and explicitly tells you so) is a waste of time. Both your time and theirs. I just move on to the next person. An ...

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:47 am • 25 Replies • 5911 Views

Whats your favourite toy?

A cock leash (with my dream goddess holding the other end of course) and a cat o'nine tails for Her use, for those times when I'm a bit too out of line.

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:42 am • 33 Replies • 11935 Views

When is it topping from the bottom?

^aching cavern without lucidity...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 6:12 am • 6 Replies • 1785 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

It is interesting to read that while the numbers are certainly skewed towards submissive men vs domme females, the numbers may not be as skewed as the dating sites indicate- for reasons that the domme ...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 2:54 am • 47 Replies • 16033 Views